Get the below order wrong and life is difficult:

1. God comes first.
2. Wife comes second.
3. Children comes third
4. Your job is next because it is necessary for stability of above.
5. Your ministry to others, but family first. 
6. Friends come next.   

Never prioritize your children over your wife as the Lord made you one with your wife.

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