And then i tell them primal app doesn’t breakdown outgoing/incoming relays and I get 
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 Primal sucks n e ways lol 

 Primal has an interesting feature that you can look at the most cringe posts on the right. 

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 i think their main point lately is that one shouldn't specify too many relays in the NIP-65 metadata (inboxes and outboxes), because that's information for other people and makes it harder to find your posts or send a post to you

apart from that there's little reason to not use as many relays as you want, though things might become slower and/or more battery and bandwidth usage, but doesn't affect anyone else 

 Battery life definitely gets worse with more relays but things slow way down with less relays… 

 What client, I moved to few on amethyst and no noticeable difference  

 Only clients that use outbox model.