You good with that or want to change it up?
If good, ignore the rest here :)

If wanna change, ask yourself what ‘should/shouldn’t’ thoughts you’re having.

Then look for the unmet needs under those thoughts.

Then look for ways to meet those needs, either yourself or by making a request of someone else (which they may decline, leading to further discussion or asking someone else)

Sending peace and love to you and the fam 💜