Oh, and last but not least, not my idea, would like to know who was the first that share the idea, simple, brilliant and obvious, yet, nobody added that feature during the design phase since for sure monetizing the relays was always considered. 

X. The connection of the clients to the relays should be distributed using  a torrent like tech (swarms)... That way you won't have a handful of relays taking all the traffic since most people will keep selecting only the relays with the most connected users, thus, without knowing it, supporting further the centralization of #Nostr. (***No censorship for real, freedom of speech, raw and organic as it should be, any filtering done by the user in the client***)