Oddbean

My truth is I married first man to have spawn. Everything the docs were telling me at 19 … they were telling my bio mom at 25. She had full hysterectomy at 27. Told a friend & he offered to marry me & have kiddos. I denied that offer. We were on deployment and I figured he just had what was known as field Luv 💚 anyway after the deployment I went home on leave and I had my mom‘s doctor. Check me out and she agreed so when I went back, I called him and let him know and he said he didn’t want to talk about anything in the past ( I broke his heart 🖤 ) and we were good so we went out and then subsequently got married. But he never accepted I grew to love him and wasn’t “ in love “ with him so it broke up our marriage 😭😭😭 Either way: he’s an extremely good man & father. After our divorce neither of us ever spoke bad about the other. Know this cause a guy I hadn’t seen in years thought he and I were still married. 😂 No: we’re just professionals FFS 🤦🏻‍♀️ Our young adult children are all fiercely independent thinkers & all different so we do okay. 😂 Ducky 🦆 was robbed. He and Andi should have gotten together. https://youtu.be/fDFmRETqKTs?si=8WL6Y7pjqh_1WsJK