I want to be as non custodial as possible. Want to use bitcoin for really small amounts on nostr and to send to friends without paying to open a channel. Lightning should be perfect but the only non custodial wallets like zeus need a large fee to set up the wallet. Am I missing a better wallet?
I agree, for lightning, custodial is the way, less headaches. Liquid is arguably more reliable. The problem is that neither are solutions to the big problem here, of on-chain being unusable. Because both require trust in people not taking your money away from you. They solve some problems, not the main problem.