and this is why we need a simple, easy to follow, guide on getting started with Nostr and things like NIP-05 verification. I looked when I started and it was not at all intuitive.

BitBees - yes, if you set up a new wallet, you simply add the new lightning address in the field on your profile and save it. That will then replicate across all the clients that pull your Nostr profile. One update, shown everywhere.

The challenge is what wallet to use and picking one that you v=can use on a mobile device, in a browser, and whichever client you prefer (Primal, Damus, Iris, Rabbit, etc., etc.) Some work with certain wallets but not all. There's NWC (Nostr wallet connect) but not all support it. The only way I know of to do this and have thorough control (without a paid subscription service that costs more than your zaps each month) is to install a Lightning node on your own server and manage it. But that is a LOT of work for most people and a total barrier to adoption for many!

TL;DR - my first wallet was via the  @primal iOS app. Super easy, up and running and zapping folks in minutes, but I've heard recently no one can get it to activate - so there's that.

I played with Chasu.me wallet which works great, but you actually end up having multiple cashu.me wallets across platforms/clients and multople backups of seed phrases, it was a whole thing. I'm still searching for a simple solution that is cross-client compatible other than setting up my own server/node. 

 ugh - sorry for my piss poor grammar and spelling. 

 I absolutely love my #Primal native wallet. Instant ledger, one-tap zaps, easy UX, goodlooking.  But something happened where I cannot receive zaps into it, only zap out, or send Sats 丰 from another wallet to it. All zaps I receive go into this nightmare Blue Wallet that was attached to Alby, which I thought I deleted Alby yesterday, after sending all Sats 丰 to one of my other hot wallets.  Only to find I was still receiving zaps/emails re the blanking Alby thing (which is way above my pay grade).  Now it is deleted and I can’t zap out of the Blue Wallet, or send the few remaining Sats to any other wallet.   Feel for the noob who gets stuck and doesn’t have all the support that I am getting from y’all.