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 Had a falling out with my extended family during Covid times. Goes way deeper than Covid, lots of generational trauma stuff. 

Frankly I’ve moved on and am very happy with my life now without them apart of it. 

My cousin callled me and told me they want me back as part of the family. I just need to apologize first. 

I was like nah I’m good. I won’t be apologizing this time or ever.

Felt good.

Stick up for yourself. 

Then wake up and do it again, 

And some more the next day. 

You don’t owe anyone anything.