To receive zaps on nostr you need the email address version of lightning network and not all self custody lightning wallets provide that.. Zeus does but they really expensive  

 The lightning gateway limit?

Just watched a presentation that showed that most bitcoiners prefer custodial wallet, checkout my profile I shared it 

 I prefer self custody. Ppl that truly understand will always choose self custody even if its hard or a little expensive.  

 No real Bitcoiner or Freedom seeker will keep their Bitcoin on an exchange. 

 Bitcoiner is a user of bitcoin, you are right on freedom seeker