So, this is a thing I've told my kids since they were small, there is no such thing as "normal" because my normal and your normal and the guy down the street's normal are all different. There can only be an average and I hope you strive to be anything but average.  

 Thats a good lesson kinds off topic but just makes me think of popular saying here: be normal thats already crazy enough 

 I also try to remember that I'm not raising children. I'm raising adults who just happen to be children right now.