Ok I think I'm good to go now, linked my Strike. Was having issues because I was trying to set up something through Alby (took me a bit to realize HOW to connect haha) but they are no longer taking new people. But I was still struggling with knowing whether my wallet was correctly connected through using multiple clients. But it seems to be all linked. I had somebody share link to nostrsync but it wasn't working for me. Also while reading a little on this, somebody said that as you use and add more and solidify your relays things will show up more and more