I like your honesty and story telling comments. I wouldn't worry much about adoption, entropy, or the drunk uncle. We are in safe hands because we chose to be free. Trust builds up with time, but first, it has to start from within then spreads to others and everything. 

 Boy...do I have stories about the drunk uncle!
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I best say a prayer for my godfather!😳😳😳🙏🙏🙏