Nostr.watch actively finds and lists them. Do you have an example of a relay that isn't listed? Would be cool relays published some usage stats for scrapers like nostr.watch to gather...
Some relays are only ws://local, for instance.
True.. Does wss://local help with responsiveness? I should probably set up one of those. My bostr2 bouncer is unresponsive sometimes because it's on a cheap VPS. Any recommendations for setting local relays?