"If there are more signs of bad fruit, we need to consider whether our faith is real and respond accordingly."

This may be due to my incomplete understanding of Reformed theology, but it would seem that this statement conflicts with the doctrine of Irresistible Grace.  Do you hold to all the points of TULIP?

I struggle to wrap my head around how a believer can be said to respond to grace in this or that way, when that grace is said to be irresistible.  Maybe you can help me understand the finer points better? — This is a comment on: https://yakihonne.com/article/naddr1qvzqqqr4gupzprf5h5jryfqv2cm3wj3akxgc0za2rsfn4mrnndj2yep9naq5hcetqyw8wumn8ghj7mn0wd68ytfsxyh8jcttd95x7mnwv5hxxmmdqyw8wumn8ghj7mn0wd68ytfsxgh8jcttd95x7mnwv5hxxmmdqy08wumn8ghj7mn0wd68ytfsxvhxgmmjv9nxzcm5dae8jtn0wfnsz9rhwden5te0wfjkccte9ejxzmt4wvhxjmcpremhxue69uhkummnw3ez6vpj9ejx7unpveskxar0wfujummjvuqq6vfhxyur2dpkxcunqdfn8qmdlncn