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matt | 2 months ago (raw) | root | parent | reply | flag +1 
 One thing I'm really saddened by is the absence of a good grandfather in my life. This is a good goal. A future human may not have to feel the way I do. But, it has shaped me in a positive way in that I also want to be that wise and dependable person for younger people. I already practice at it when younger people around me are struggling, and I don't have children.
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Mandrik | 2 months ago (raw) | root | parent | reply | flag 
 Grandparents are incredible if you're lucky enough to have them in your life. I never knew my dad's parents, but I was lucky to have my mom's parents in my life until my mid-20s.

My mom recently converted all her analog family tapes to digital, and my wife & I watched everything. My grandparents were always present no matter the occasion. I can't imagine not having that growing up, but I also think about how much more fulfilling things would have been if my dad's parents were also there. I wish they took better care of their health.

A future human may not feel as you do, but if you make yourself an excellent grandfather, they won't be able to imagine life without your presence.✌️