You probably need to have some American servers wide open, for those politically persecuted, elsewhere. Nobody has solved for that use case effectively, yet.
Sender initiated LN payments can be as anonymous as Tor traffic, and I devised a scheme that uses the preimages to carry session pubkeys.
https://github.com/indra-labs/indranet
It's fairly close to being complete except I think libp2p needs to be replaced with an ad hoc p2p transport built on QUIC with gossip peer advertising like bitcoin's p2p layer