The biggest relays are Bitcoin topical relays, sometimes leaning toward Nostr Dev relays.
Give other topical relays a chance, in the default client settings, so that newbies can choose which topics they'd prefer.
Is this a message to devs or users? (My understanding of relays is still pretty weak).
Is there anything I can do as a user to help with this? (Add specific relays, etc).
Yes! Users can help by setting up topical relays. Cooking relays, travel relays, etc.
What relay do you recommend for users to do this? Top 5? Are they all typescript? (ha ha)
Ah. I didn't understand what topical meant. It would be cool if clients added such relays when someone follows a particular topic or whatever. Or at least offer to add them.
The whole relay thing has been one of the most annoying aspects of UX for me.
It's probably low on the list, but in the future it would probably help with on boarding if the clients recommended relays based on topics. A lot of the scary complexities of relays can be abstracted away with images and maybe more human readable names for the relays.