Thank you for this tip  @Svoboda!
Turns out that my messages of the last days are indeed only picked up by 1 or 2 relays. I'm pretty sure this has to do with PoW score.
I can imagine relays have tightened hard to fight the wave of spam.
But if that's the case, new users will have a hard time reaching anyone at all. Sounds like this could seriously block adoption, while the more established accounts don't even know about it, because their PoW is high enough.

Ha, while writing all this, I now see in  @Coracle that my earlier note has been picked up by 6 relays, where it said 1 relay just a few minutes ago.  Interesting times... 
 

 Definitely could be something to do with the WoT scores. Here is a note with a list of WoT relays. You may want to add a couple of them into your collection. 

https://primal.net/e/note1qqqqq95r4mkw23tg05u5unvx52cycm5wlv2dkakxy902dte26huqmy7hx2 

 Turns out that new notifications also don't show up on primal desktop anymore. At least the pink 'point' that shows that you have new notifications.. So I completely missed your last message.

I very much appreciate the help!
I will look into the WoT relays and see if I am able to post anything there. My WoT will be very low, since I am new with very few followers, and I added a lot of people to follow from the primal onboarding part. Worst case scenario, I might have to unfollow to get anywhere.

 

 I keep Primal, Coracle, Nostrudel and a couple other clients open on my desktop. I notice I usually get the notifications on Primal last. No idea why, but there are just weird idiosyncrasies between all of the different clients.  

 Just followed you. Lets see if I can give you a little bump.