In that I mean that women are more troubled by seeing other people treated unfairly or pressured, and more concerned with the wider negative impact of their own actions, so we'll be more prone to avoid an offer that isn't clearly structured to limit such things.

I have written on my concerns, repeatedly, and tried to make constructive suggestions for improvement, but I get no response from them, other than some tone-deaf variant of "Stop whining," or "Have you tried turning it off and then on again?"