It is not about being liked or not. I don't care if I like you or vice versa. It is not the personalities. I don't know you, I can't know you, I don't even know a minute of your life. It is all about process, it is the product you produced. It is your intellect and compassion towards it. This is a process, standing with each other. That's all.
It’s one thing to request for better communication, or whatever else you’re asking for. It’s an entirely separate thing to say do this or else “very strong backlash, ruining everything”. That kind of rhetoric from strangers on the internet is concerning at a minimum, and could be interpreted as a threat.
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