@jaf Abusive psychopaths need to be put mental asylums not to protect them, but everyone else honestly. Most of these people are fully able to be decent people  but active abuse any goodwill they have. 

My father's mistress had gone to the extent to threaten suicide if he stopped visiting her. Then only a few years later she claims that she "never liked men to begin with" and somehow managed to get a another woman to marry her. 

 @Loded-Diaper i find solace admitting to myself that i am deathly afraid of women because of my mother. idk what i can do about that tho