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Uno | 2 months ago (raw) | root | parent | reply | flag 
 If I'm ever out with anyone, doesn't matter who, I feel bad if I'm not the one paying and it messes with me.
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MAHDOOD | 2 months ago (raw) | root | parent | reply | flag 
 Why do you feel bad?
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Uno | 2 months ago (raw) | root | parent | reply | flag +2 
 mostly it messes with me, not sure why. but I like being the one who pays usually
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MAHDOOD | 2 months ago (raw) | root | parent | reply | flag 
 If someone wants to show you kindness, there’s nothing wrong with accepting that. Unless you worry about feeling obligated to return the favor?