I know Jordan Peterson is divisive for some. I think this is some solid advice in this short video. Basically visualize what you want and where you want to be in 5 years. Write it down. Separate it by every category: intimate relationship(s), family relationships, friends, home, work, finances, community contributions, etc. Know what you’re aiming for, what you’re working for then be willing to do the work. 

I’ll be taking some time today to think and write about this. 

https://youtube.com/shorts/aV0nCExTOaY?si=joGa669k8xuL8QSq