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 Absolutely. Choosing a wife will be the most important decision of your life for young guys. Don’t fuck it up. Attraction is the baseline. Shared values are where things make or break. 
 Trust is the ultimate value. If you can’t trust your partner 100%, your relationship is doomed. Find someone you can trust absolutely, communicate with, share respect and care for each other, and everything else tends to work out. 
 This is much more important than money.