She is generally on board. She has always trusted in buying the dip. Although we have another kid in the way and pausing construction could be a huge pain due to a short span available to work around things.
Congrats on the new human! I’ve got another one brewing right now as well. I would pause. Take the fam on a nice vacay with the proceeds in 5 years and make some memories dealing with less square footage in the meantime. If you need perspective just think about how our ancestors lived check to jowl with their animals in straw huts, no heat plumbing or nostr
It all depends on the tradeoffs.