thanks for all the suggestions so far, I went through all comments (I hope) and gathered them here on a github list so it's easier to share around, feel free to make PR with more things or corrections.  There are now both free and license based tools on that list now, but all by suggestions so far. 
https://github.com/DJLink/list-of-game-engines-and-frameworks/ 

 @eb948c00 you spelt bevy as beby 

 @e39146c2 fixed, thanks 

 @eb948c00 Steal mine: https://taoofmac.com/space/games

I can give you the YAML file with the data. 

 @5a2470b9 cool I’ll check it later to add the ones missing 

 @eb948c00 I saw some people talking about Heaps (and Haxe), but I can't really vouch for it so I didn't bother with a PR.
https://heaps.io/ 

 @eb948c00 pixi.js