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 Fair enough.  
 I was really lucky to kind of get it the first time, but a lot of my friends didn’t and relapsed a few times. I don’t believe in enabling, but I believe in being there when they’re ready 
 That is lucky. I have witnessed the good and bad as well. I used to be the "I'll save you person" and realized I can't if they don't want that help. Always will be there if they need it..same.