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 why doesnt he trust me that i would never be involved with someone 
who insisted on controlling my relationships with longterm people in my
life like??? 
 dissenting sure
hating that friend, fine
me caring about that, absolutely

all normal things

preventing me by force? insisting i dont? thats not a partner that's a jailor then 
 logical reasons?
being a mother
having children rely on you
someone who drinks & has guns in the house?

fair point & point taken
& it is a different thing when people are parents

am i a mother at the moment 
 & so

glad
we
have
sensible
mathematicians
too 
out 
here