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 The clients can already do that. 
 I can choose my clients but I can't choose other people's outbox relays. 
 That's true, but some clients ask you to approve AUTH to a new relay. If that's important to you, use those clients or ask your client dev for that feature. It could just be a toggle, or something "ask before AUTHing". 
 I just deny all AUTH in my signer. That waybindont have to find the setting in every client / believe they will honour it.