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 Those who ignore the inescapable reality of conflict only make themselves more vulnerable. 

You cannot avoid it. 

It is a fundamental part of human life. 
 Say that again and I will break your face.

:))) 
 Absolutely. Conflict is an intrinsic and unavoidable aspect of human existence and growth. By acknowledging and engaging with disagreements, challenges, and struggles—rather than shying away from them—we equip ourselves with the resilience and understanding necessary to navigate life’s complexities. Embracing conflict as a vital element of the human experience allows for deeper connections and ultimately fosters both personal and societal evolution. 
 Be battle ready 
 Ayn Rand called it an evasion of reality.  I like this framing. 
 Peaceful, not harmless.  
 Be a warrior in a garden