People at some point started to confuse being kind with being nice and those are not the same. Being kind is taking an action for the highest good of all involved but that does not mean agreement! Sometimes being kind means simply walking away. 
Agree for the sake of peace is being "nice".
"Disagree" for the highest good of all involved but presenting the issue with empathy, that's being kind.
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