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"Women choose who they sleep with, men choose who they marry."
I am not sure about that...
Why not?
Because marriage is a contract both must choose. And I think women are the ones who choose. But, I might be wrong....
Of course, as is sex. Both must consent. Women ultimately control access to consensual relations, men will largely sleep with any women who let them. I would say this dynamic is inverted when it comes to marriage, in that the man has to decide to ask her.
I feel like this overstates the case. 😂 Not ANYONE we want.
I could never do it with someone I don't desire... Desire is the fuse. I don't desire that often...😂😂😂😳
Middling statement
And that means?
There are games that the average person plays that those at extremes don’t or do not have to play.
Never saw sex as a game, never. But I become aware some people use others as toy's. I lost my innocence at that moment.
