Yeah. The very point of this pronoun kerfuffle is that it’s nunya. I DO NOT CARE/NEED to know with whom you sleep and company you keep. This whole thing is about private matters ultimately.  Can we not keep our own counsel without dragging the rest of the world into such deeply personal areas?   I have two customers who identify as non-binary. It is frankly exhausting to remember to refer to him/her as they/them when asking about the other. I feel for their precious little girls, who must be confused. I beg of you to keep me blissfully ignorant of your bedroom roles. Having said all this, I am respectfully uncomfortable. nostr:note15j69v0xhhj9ssjsa97e639cx5gmtsly2f4gkkjwratpq6r5rht2qwlnj5n 

 No! You must refer to me as “Patriarchy/Enjoyuer”