They want the fakeness both digitally and in real life so they don't have to get scared by ever seeing their "plain" real selves, which are desperate for affection.
I wrote about something related to this in the "simone de beauvoir" section of this article:
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Why you don’t suck my dick?
You sure are committed to the Eris character, I like it.
My name is Eris motherfucker