I think the early Nostr users, we can't keep up with Nostr development...it's just not possible. 

Instead maybe just be intentional about trying things. Experiment. If it doesn't click then move on. 

Idk I'm new here.  

 You don't have to try every tool. Every client, everything you don't have to try everything. 

 I have seen people and I myself beat ourselves up for not being able to keep up. 

We're in agreement.