I’ve had men tell me that they felt like the engagement ring is more of a signal to other men. I’ve seen engagement rings I wouldn’t wear swimming cause you’d just sink right to the bottom. 

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Yeah. I originally said I didn't need one and he was like nope, you're getting one.
And it did have a tangible, immediate effect on other men. 

 I didn't even realize how many men were interested until I had the ring on and they were like, Darn, too slow.
Fr, bro? 😄🤷‍♀️
But my husband realized it.

I don't pick up on a lot of stuff.