If I can somehow make it feasible for me to pay an extra 12k sats per month I would. Atm, I just can’t. Things are tight
You just got Start9 running right? You can just use the Nostr Relay app available. Use it as a private relay and all your notes will be backed up to the Start9 from public relays. https://docs.start9.com/0.3.5.x/service-guides/nostr/index#nostr-service