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I know this guy. Served in the US navy. Hunts deer. Drives a truck. 

First (or second?) wife he caught naked with another woman in a swimming pool. Second wife divorced him the day she got her citizenship. Paid crippling child support. 

Did he not try hard enough? Should he man up?