I apologise for my overly strong, negative notes as well.
I have nothing to disagree with on what you just said. Let me restate clearly what my issues are:
1. If you are going to share your Nostr service in a non-Nostr place you need to anticipate user needs. They need signposting on how to onboard.
2. Using phrases like “normies” (even if your definition is valid) is not helpful. It fosters an “us vs them” attitude that is not welcoming to those that join.
I see and appreciate all that you’ve done for the Nostr community in the past. I’m sorry that I’ve been rude, I have my stances and you have yours but we also have common ground. I hope we can discuss and grow in better faith.