Roman Catholic bros, I dunno, but you might be taking the Wedding at Cana too far, maybe when John tells us it was a wedding he means it was a wedding.

I also don't see where you're getting Jesus changes His relationship with His mother into that of teacher and disciple (rather than son and mother) out of John 2:3-5.

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