Good distinction.  Thanks.  I think when normies see "censorship resistent" they think "censorship proof".  I cant remember who but a prominent bitcoiner was on a podcast and said "damus can ban you".  Ive not seen that tested, but I think if a damus user was banned from the damus relay there could be significant degredation of service, and if the top 3-5 I suspect there would be so many paper cuts that most would stop using the system. 

 yeah, that's the fun part

perhaps it would me more accurate to say that nostr is leaky

doesn't sound as cool but that's the facts... anyone sees an event they can publish it and it's self-authenticating