Karo, do you have telegram? Many women of Nostr have a telegram group that were using to coordinate times for private cornychats. But we’re also just using it to chat. Seems of possible interest to you. You can DM Marie to join.
I don't but I'll look into getting it
I've been playing around with SimpleX. Seems pretty good. Once you play around with it. It's easy to post a link that people can use to communicate with you securely. You can also send an invite to people multiple ways. Seems very private..🫂