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arisu_exe | 1 years ago (raw) | export | reply | flag +1 
 I really have only ever had one sexual partner that truly satisfied me, out of the four people I've slept with
I hope that number goes up, but it really shows that how much better good sex is than meh sex. Meh sex is genuinely frustrating, when they can't make you cum, aren't hot, or you're just plain not attracted to them
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Liam Holmes | 1 years ago (raw) | root | parent | reply | flag 
 @b42c3131 100% agree with this post ❤️​
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551688da | 1 years ago (raw) | root | parent | reply | flag 
 @b42c3131 I genuinely hope you find that one person who hits all of the right spots for you and makes you feel good in everyway
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aethier | 1 years ago (raw) | root | parent | reply | flag 
 @b42c3131 Sadly I know how you feel, except no one has truly satisfied me before :cirno_cry:​

Good luck finding someone right for you <3
I've never understood how people can have sex and not satisfy their partner fully or at the very least, make them cum
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514a0c1e | 1 years ago (raw) | root | parent | reply | flag 
 @b42c3131 Okay,....okay...uhhh, okay.

Okay, look, I know that I could almost be your grandpappy; and if we were in a hot incest fam, I WOULD be your granddad.

Whatever, this is about reality and I'm not trying to "one up" you or talk down to you like you're some kinda "sophomore" because you're 18 or whatever it is, okay?

I don't want that shit. This is pediverse. We are community, not a hierarchy. I anything, by bein the old man of the scene, I'm "less than" rather than "more than."

I've had more partners than I can couunt (and part of that was that I stopped counting back around 2002 when I became convinced that human beings who open their bodies to me aren't statistics to be counted) but I know this:

You shoudln't be having sex with people who are "meh." That might be easy for me to say now, but I'm telling, Arisu...listen, if you have courage and skils (rizz; god, what a dumb idea) that number 4 at 18 or 19 will go up to 40 or more higher by the time your 30. It could go way higher than that. I've had sex with people who were NOT porn industry people and who STILL fucked or sucked more than 200 people by the time they were 35 and didn't have any STDs from it. 

Do not settle for meh sex. Do NOT. You don't need to. I have a semi-vague idea of what metropolitan area you live in and babeeee, you do NOT need to.