Anyone have strong feelings about hosting your own #wireguard or rolling with something like #netbird. I never did do a trial run of #tailscale and I still have trust issues but we've been using Netbird successfully at work for a while. I'd like to access my #homeassistant server and a couple of other minor things. Been trying to figure this out for ages.
Got the same issues of not wanting third party involved. I use a selfhosted wireguard in a docker container. But also trying out Nebula , that because they support lighthouse, which are nodes that have no extra function except to help identify other nodes. Therefore a lighthouse that has been taken over doesnt by default give an attacker access to the internal network.
I rent a VPS and run wireguard on it. My HA server connects to it via the wireguard addon as do any clients that are outside my network. I use cell service for my ISP so I can't open ports to the world even if I wanted to.