There are no solutions, only tradeoffs.
Hire a good accountant or if you can afford it a tax attorney. Make full use of the tax laws (loop holes). Make more money so that these things have a smaller affect. This is what the wealthy elites do. This is what business owners do. These things will have more impact on you than voting. But voting.
We don't yell at the sun when we get sun burn, we cover up or go inside. We all get caught up in what isn't in our control from time to time. Focus on what you can change.
I was kidding about voting harder.
I already do all these things you recommend and I pay wayyyyyyyyyy too much