Actually, you only have the choice if you are tech savvy... I'm not 😅🤷🏽♀️
We need less-tech-savvy people, too! Who else is going to tell devs that their interface makes no sense?
I think you're on some private relays like theforest and ok0. 🤔 Check the list in your client.
I recall trying to sign up to the forest and getting a bunch of error messages. Ok0 is something that someone else signed me up to I believe... By which I mean someone once asked me if I want one of those identifyer things and I said, "sure"
I also once managed to figure out how to use that site you sent me which shoudl fix how stuff appears? 😊🤣 That took me way too log to do and I don't ever know if it worked 😅 I don't know what hat you me a by "check the list in your client" although I spose I could fumble around for a bit trying to figure it out.
Found the list! I'm on the forest, can't see okO
You could probably add ok0, since you have your NIP-05 (mouse@ok0.org) from there.
Challenge accepted 🫡
He doesn't seem to have AUTH setup, so you can probably at least read from there.
I don't actually know what the relays name is. Kept getting errors. That's why I went back and checked and the forest although appearing in my list is still showing errors. Every time I think I'm getting somewhere I find out I'm not. 😤
I'm on Amethyst, and my relays are giving lots of errors. Just not all at the same time! The forest is about the only one not erroring right now :)