You recently posted about finding connection to god being difficult. Can I suggest that focussing on culture war stuff will stop you from finding God. Not that you can take your eye off it completely but its a balance that seems out of sink for you atm. Dont mean to sound preachy, my apologies if its annoying.   

 Can’t a guy make some jokes around here lol 

 jokes also disrupt connection... nah just jokes :P