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  Someone pointed out how men will literally hate a woman but still want to fuck them. They said: "Why would I lust for something that repeals me? That's the opposite of attraction for me. It's violent in nature."

And it had me thinking about ASTROLOGY and how sex is often associated with Mars energy. That never made sense to me. But now it does. Because men were the ones making the rules. And at the time, men's relationship with women was...different.lol. 

Sex is LITERALLY an act of merging, coming together. Attraction. Cooperation. Creation. And yet it's associated with energy that amounts to war, conquest, destruction and separation.

One night say that the passion associated with Mars is the connection, but it takes a lot more than just passion for sex to occur. There's no passion without attraction.

Even if it's just her ass, you're attracted to something.

Humans try to find every way possible to violate the laws of nature instead of walking in love and acceptance of the truth. We cannot combat the Creator. We will lose every time.

This has been our problem for millennia. A problem that I want to solve. I've said this millions of times--the merging of masculine and feminine energy is in everything. It's the most powerful force on the planet. And I don't just mean heterosexual norms. 

You stick thread through the eye of a needle, that's the force in action. You cannot escape it.

I'd like to create an environment that fosters growth and understanding of the interplay of those energies inside AND outside of ourselves and how we can safely integrate them into our lives.