DHH has a great post today, one section really caught my attention and is something I've been thinking a lot about recently.

"And that's what gets me. Everyone find it easy to nod in agreement with Jobs' ode to To The Crazy Ones¹. Everyone wants to believe that they'd support "the misfits, the rebels, the troublemakers". That they too would cheer for those who are "not fond of rules. And... have no respect for the status quo".

But they won't and they don't. Most people are either aggressively or passively conformist². They squirm when The Crazy Ones actually attempt to change the world. They don't see genius as often as they see transgressors. A failure to comply and comport. And they don't like it."

So GM Nostr. 🌞 Be crazy and non-conformist today.

1. https://basicappleguy.com/basicappleblog/heres-to-the-crazy-ones
2. https://paulgraham.com/conformism.html


Sky today!

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Observation: Have you noticed that Fasts which last for multiple days are something which *ONLY* WEALTHY & PRIVILEGED people can do because regular people ACTUALLY NEED TO EAT FOOD because they *NEED* THE CALORIES and an ENERGY Source for activities and things they have to do to LIVE?!

If they are hungry, it’s *NOT* INTENTIONAL hunger but because they cannot afford to buy nor get food from other people?!

Again, there are MANY CLUELESS & PRIVILEGED people living in bubbles 🫧🫧🫧🫧🫧🫧 who are OUT OF TOUCH WITH REALITY because they isolate themselves from REGULAR people who are *NOT* wealthy nor PRIVILEGED like them!!

i suggest these kinds of people GET BACK DOWN TO REALITY and hang out with MORE HUMBLE folks!!


*No, it is not just calories in and calories out the right way to track your weight loss. It's actually about your gut microbes and leftovers.*

If you're trying to lose weight, be careful: two foods may have the same number of calories, but other food factors and your microbes influence which calories your body uses more of.

Traditional diets like the Mediterranean and the Okinawan diet are rich in bioactives that support your mitochondrial health and metabolism. (Western diets often lack these crucial compounds).

👉🏽 https://theconversation.com/is-weight-loss-as-simple-as-calories-in-calories-out-in-the-end-its-your-gut-microbes-and-leftovers-that-make-your-calories-count-237629?utm_medium=social&utm_source=nostr #foodstr #health


Obvi, these are the kinds of ANNOYING and SHALLOW 👙💅🏼 👠👠 SUPERFICIAL 🎀Girly Girls whom i would *NEVER EVER* be friends with!

😅

https://youtu.be/RLn5qNngGn4?feature=shared


A MATURE and ✨ENLIGHTENED✨ person takes *FULL* RESPONSIBILITY of things they break or make worse!

They do *NOT* pass the buck on blaming *OTHERS* for their misdeeds!

And neither do their SHALLOW Golddigging 👠👠 Wives who *ONLY* married a VERY UNLIKABLE COMPULSIVE LYING GREEDY & SELFISH and *SELF-Interested* IMMORAL and UNETHICAL Man with *NO* Empathy nor Compassion for *OTHER* people and who conveniently negotiated a *NEW* prenup to continue being his wife because she really does *NOT* like nor love him at all!

Body language does *NOT* lie nor does TRUE 😍🥰 affection and ❤❤ LOVE!


To be able to reach the Self-Actualized stage, a person *NEEDS* to ACCEPT the flaws and negative qualities about themselves rather than denying them!

You need to do an HONEST, *SELF-EXAMINATION* and do a harsh assessment of *WHO* you are and have been via past behavior, especially when your ACTIONS failed to deliver on your words & promises!

(My Words ➡ ACTION delivery rate has always been ~99%)

And make peace with it and LEARN from your past mistakes and stupidity!

Once you have embraced your Strengths and Weaknesses of WHO you are and TRULY COMFORTABLE with yourself and still LIKE yourself, then you have reached INNER 🕊☮✌Peace!

And then you won’t have a hole in your heart ❤ or loneliness in which you are seeking to fill it with other people, none who are your True ❤❤ Love because you’re trying TOO DESPERATELY for someone else to make you feel whole and complete.

It takes 2 WHOLE & COMPLETELY Happy-On-Their-Own people to make a Loyal & Faithful Happy & Fulfilling Till Death ☠ Lasting Marriage!!


Still in touch with Shopgirl girl friend made on my last trip to Europe.

Our bond is strong as in she and SMART 💻 boyfriend would make the cut as wedding guests!


That thing when a toxic person makes you write a note inside your head!


🇩🇪Jan Blomqvist & Band

🇬🇧Boiler Room 🇩🇪Berlin LIVE Set  (1:02:59)

Genre: Electronic 🎧🎹

i think 🇩🇪Jan Blomqvist is a BRILLIANT Musician and he’s definitely in my Top 5 🎧 DJ & Electronic Musician List!

https://youtu.be/qHRur3DkX-c?feature=shared


Night walking view this weekend.

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Autumn! 🍁🍂

Changing colors of nature in Fall!

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Autumn! 🍁🍂

Changing colors of nature in Fall!

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Autumn! 🍁🍂

Changing colors of nature in Fall!

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Happy Fall (Autumn)! 🍁🍂🎃

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“SNL” Opener from last Saturday night:

😅

https://youtu.be/AafBunu-k2U?feature=shared


Hmm, let me think of exactly *WHEN* i started drinking Whiskey 🥃! 🤔

The Thing that also caused me to use an impolite🖕for the 1st Time ⏱ EVER!

Caused by INCOMPETENT, LAZY, SUPER MANIPULATIVE and DEMANDING people who caused me *LOTS* of⚡⚡⚡⚡⚡⚡STRESS!

The Lesson i learned from that is if you’re VERY intelligent, it’s sometimes *BEST* To PRETEND you’re *NOT* that smart because otherwise, people will take advantage of you and you end up having to FIX YEARS OF INCOMPETENCE, SELF-Learn and figure out most stuff on your *OWN* and of HOW things run!!

Also, i REALLY fking do *NOT* enjoy massaging male ego, especially when i do *NOT* RESPECT nor admire them at all so won’t which, of course, offends their VAIN ego FULL of *SELF-Importance* and make them dislike you!

Especially when ARROGANT VAIN Full of SELF-IMPORTANCE Men are LAZY and a CHEATING BASTARD who abuse their power!


Ladies, i would recommend DRESSING *SEXY & CLASSY* rather than Trampy DESPERATE for Male 👀👀 Attention HO! 🍈🍈🍑👙👠👠

MORE Taylor Swift than any of her Current or Former Nemesis and their SHALLOW Sisters and girl friends!


Be kind for no reason


Reading about a shop which sells high end fashion, including clothes by my FAVORITE Fashion Designers who show at Fashion Week 🌎🌏🌍 and whose Founder i used to serve as a Waitress and met up for drinks 🍹🍸🍷

i knew one of the Models they used, a *NATURALLY* born beautiful girl with long dark brown hair.

Other girls were mean to her because jealous, so i think most of her friends were guys!

Personally, i would recommend shopping at Nordstrom because led by supertall, lovely HUMBLE Men and EXCELLENT Customer Service!


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What do you get when you mix a Dalmatian and a Great Dane? A Great Damnatian


Personally, NONE of my Ex Romantic Partners have been SUPER SHALLOW nor *REALLY* Stupid!

In fact, one of the *BIG* Lessons i LEARNED is that *PHYSICAL* Attraction is VERY VERY *VERY* IMPORTANT and someone being VERY 🧠 SMART is definitely *NOT* enough!!

The FIRST thing HAS TO BE *PHYSICAL* ATTRACTION!!


Fact: Most people have a type and they essentially date the SAME people over and over!


Wealthy SHALLOW Men of Endless Money and “VIP” PRIVILEGES also living in a 🫧🫧🫧🫧🫧🫧 seem to be into her tho and also her VERY PRETTY Girl Friend!

Frankly, i am *NOT* surprised at all since HE is REALLY into PRETTY SHALLOW Girls!


i noticed a Very PRETTY Girl who actually fking posted a pic of her 🍑 and thought 🙄 and you’re REALLY *NOT* the brightest 💡 bulb, hon, cuz of *OTHER* reasons!

Not certain who some guy Ross is but to think COMPULSIVE LYING UNETHICAL Idiot With ZERO Integrity is the *better* choice since he may free him when *IF* that happens, MAJORITY of Females will LOSE RIGHTS to their *OWN* body and MAJORITY of people around the world 🌎🌏🌍 will have their Rights and FREEDOM RESTRICTED OR LOSE IT only shows HOW CLUELESS some people are!!

YOU are TOTALLY OUT OF TOUCH WITH REALITY because living in a 🫧🫧🫧🫧🫧🫧 bubble!


It’s supercool that i have a VERY TALENTED Artist guy friend whose works have exhibited at or/and are part of the permanent collections at Museum of Modern Art (MOMA), New York; Metropolitan Museum of Art (MET), NYC; Whitney Museum, NYC; Guggenheim Museum, NYC; Brooklyn Museum; Brooklyn, New York; Getty Institute, Los Angeles; 🇬🇧National Portrait Gallery in 🇬🇧London, England among other art museums!


Contemplating *WHY* i am still a devoted (PLATONIC) friend to a guy friend who rarely follow thru with *ACTION* of his words, been his unpaid Therapist while in a toxic marriage to the WRONG person that he never should have married in the first place because bad love match and incompatible!

Finally separated, he’s now dating a 15 years YOUNGER THAN HIM girl who is in a way *DIFFERENT* Life Stage and which i am disgusted by because she’s so much younger, and he is quite aware of how i feel about his latest fling thing.

He’s wealthy, very attractive, brilliantly smart and talented so of course, one of his ex-gf was a Model.


Night walking

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From last night. Jimmy Kimmel is actually much more handsome IRL (and 🎥 does add weight to people’s body)!

Interesting belief re ☔🌪💨🌀🌊⛈🌦 because of LIES!

😅

https://youtu.be/3gXLdl-aj_w?feature=shared


The #Aurora Australis came out and tonight we were lucky to have a clear sky. The reality is the pictures look better than what it looks like to the naked eye. Even then it was amazing. Definitely go see them if you have a chance.

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this is the rooftop bar sunset we deserve after being tortured by Mother Nature for the past month
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there’s nothing quite like a cold beer  at sunset to remind you that life’s storms are temporary 🍻 https://image.nostr.build/8731a70bf609f9a540670818371575b18df86e58f6a23b811f8481d670cb9543.jpg


What are the chances of my EVER posting a 📷 of a silhouette of my TEENY TINY Size 2 or 4 (in THIS country) on here to show off my tiny and sexy 👙 body?

ZERO as in NEVER EVER! 0.00%

WHY: Because i have *NO* NEED nor WANT to show off my body!

Nor am i the kind of girl who craves or needs MALE 👀attention to feel good about myself or as validation! (Also *WHY* i have *NEVER EVER* dressed like a Trampy Ho revealing my goodies for male 👀👀 who are mostly simpleton visual creatures EASILY DISTRACTED by *PHYSICAL* Beauty!)

And i actually EAT lotta (mostly HEALTHY but some junk and processed) food and definitely am *NOT* a Size 2 or 4 Size Wearing Skinny Bitch, which is really a TINY % of females, especially if they don’t have an eating disorder!

And yet, those SKINNY TINY *UNREALISTIC* Female Bodies are who most Fashion Designers design for and use as basically equivalent to human coat hangers — terminology used by a different Fashion Designer Girl Friend — to show off their designs and clothes!


Fyi, across the pond where POLITENESS & HAVING MANNERS is the norm and being an arrogant, boastful person saying “I am the GREATEST!” is frowned upon, there are variations in words:

For example, 🇬🇧courgettes are called zucchini in this country; aubergines 🍆 are eggplants.

And people across the pond tend to *NOT* throw tantrums on ✈ or other places because they don’t get their way nor SUPER RUDE in shops!

The children also tend be *BETTER* BEHAVED and WAY ⬇⬇ LESS public tantrums!  It’s called LEARNING MANNERS AND POLITENESS!!

They are much LOVELIER people overall and their standards of beauty aren’t so SHALLOW PLASTIC FAKE as in this country!

You can see that in their 🇬🇧📽 Films and 🇬🇧TV 📺 Series!

If i were an Actress, i would definitely move across the pond rather than trying so DESPERATELY to look like a 20s-30s Fuckable PERFECT Looking Hot Woman!


La Croissanterie, Oxford. Watercolor. 10"x8", 140lb Arches Cold Press.

#watercolor #watercolour #aquarelle #aquarel #aquarela #art #mastoart

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Along High Street, Oxford. Direct Watercolor. 20"x16", 140lb Arches Cold Press.

#directwatercolor #watercolor #watercolour #aquarelle #aquarel #aquarela #art #mastoart

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The Bear, Early Evening in Oxford. Direct Watercolor. 20"x16", 140lb Arches Cold Press.

Great little pub in Oxford which we always seemed to find down some winding alleys around late afternoon.

#directwatercolor #watercolor #watercolour #aquarelle #aquarel #aquarela #art #mastoart

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Wednesday, 4th September 2024 - Rose from Tom
I weeded around the pond until the rain and a need for dinner set in. I am loving having Tom and Fable here. It would be perfect if we could have Harriet and her family living here too. I am sure we could fit another couple of houses into our garden. I am so proud of our grandchildren who have started the new school year bravely with a few tears from the little one and nerves from the girls. Squeezes my heart.

We are watching Sherwood. We have seen it before. It is even better the second time around. Very gritty. just found out there is another series. Excellent.

Today's postcard is a painting of a rose that Tom gave me. It is a tiny pot rose that I will transfer into the garden.... but..... as I saw two deer jumping around our flower beds today and knowing their penchant for roses it may be short lived.
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Wednesday, 18th September 2024 - Book and Dahlias

I love these warm sunny autumn days with the nights drawing in. Nearly time to light the woodburner.

You might not ever see me again as my ironing pile is voracious in its growth. I now have to wait eight more days for my roller iron to be fixed. Yesterday's technician cancelled. Then you wont see me because I will be ironing. So frustrating.

After a weeding session I framed pictures and delivered them to Bayliss & Co, we went shopping with my Tescos Clubcard and stocked up on wine, flour and tinned pilchards. This afternoon I made courgette and tomato soup that we had while watching Nightsleeper - the verdict is out as to whether it is a good watch.

Today's postcard is of my bookgroup reading from Alli and flowers grown by Esther.
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Monday, 30th September 2024 - Coffee Pot

I had a chat with someone today. They didn't know about by Connected Postcard Project. I thought that many of you may not either. So here it is ..... Every day for the 366 days of this year I am painting/printing a postcard and sending it to family, friends old and new. They can keep them or send them onto a friend. I have had some wonderful replies.

What a treat of a day it's been. I got up and put on my yoga kit. After a mug of tea, putting away the shopping Tescos delivered and a coffee, Adriene and I spent 46 minutes on the yoga mat. I haven't done any yoga for weeks. I stretched bits that I haven't stretched for ages and it felt so good.

I had a zoom meeting with a couple of other artists, I wasn't sure what to expect. It was great to talk about art to other people who understand our passion even if it is our favourite brush. I did a linocut of a coffee pot while we were zooming.

This evening Tim was in London. Tom cooked me the most delicious meal of creamy mushroom pasta topped with perfectly cooked steak. We ate it watching Back to Black drinking a glass or two of white wine. Thank you Tom I very much appreciated being cooked for.
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🏴Marina and the 💎💎Diamonds - “How To Be A Heartbreaker” 💔

[Official Music Video] | ♡ ELECTRA HEART PART 7 ♡

This is a SUPERFUN song and video!

Perhaps 🏴Marina knows my 🏴Welsh BFF, my *ONLY* FOREVA BFF Bestie who knows lots of Musicians and 🎼 🎶 industry people and a KIND & Lovely person!

And he’s definitely *NOT* perky nor is his 🏴Welsh Girlfriend!

https://youtu.be/vKNcuTWzTVw?feature=shared


If there was a PERMANENT *BLOCK* function on nostr, i know EXACTLY who the Top 2 people would be and BOTH people are ASSHOLES!

Especially the DESPERATE for ATTENTION 👀 HO Girl *NOT* even all that pretty!

Your little RE-Branded BULLSHIT is FAKE AS HELL, Hon!

i suggest learning some manners and POLITENESS!

It’ll get you MUCH FURTHER in life!


Here’s my reaction to Pretty Girls & Women who use their looks for  MALE 👀👀👀👀👀👀 attention! 🙄

*NOT* IMPRESSED, Bitch!

GET A *NEW* HOBBY, Hon!

You’re EXACTLY the kind of girl i am *NOT* friends with!  👠👠

And also fking PERKY AS HELL! ICK!


Advice for any (straight) ladies who are in a romantic ❤ relationship and considering marriage to their partner:

*BEFORE* the 💍 stage, you definitely want to have a long, serious conversation with your Potential Husband Til Death ☠🪦 and get a *THOROUGH* History of his dating and romantic history life, of things like How *LONG* the relationship was, *HOW* did they meet, and *WHO* initiated the breakup, method of breakup 💔 — 30 second phone 📞☎📱call shows IMMATURITY which Taylor Swift apparently experienced; texting and messaging is also *NOT* a thoughtful nor considerate way of breaking up! — and *WHY* did the breakup 💔 happen?

And what did he *LEARN* from the FAILED relationship?

Was there cheating? Has he EVER ghosted anyone?

If the Breakup 💔 Initiator is a woman, she DEFINITELY HAS MANY MANY good reasons for breaking up because we put up with a LOT!

And if he tries to lie about any information or skip anyone (especially the SHALLOW HOs!) you may want to say next!

HONESTY, TRUST and *GOOD* Communication skills are ALL *ESSENTIAL* for a happy, lasting, FAITHFUL and LOYAL TILL Death ☠🪦 Marriage!


Unlike most people, if i do *NOT* like you as a person for whatever reason, i will *NOT* pretend to like you!


Just uploaded this to nostr.build via Coracle - have been trying to upload images for days on #Amethyst and keep getting connection timeout errors.

Btw this was #OldPortsmouth yesterday morning 🌄

#photography #clouds #beach
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Do i have a BFF Foreva Girl Friend?

No, i do NOT!

Close girl friends yes but my *ONLY & FOREVA* BFF is a 🏴Welsh Guy!

And i am *NOT* looking for any New BFF Girl Friends!

Totally unnecessary for me!

Most Girls/Women *FAIL* my SUPER SELECTIVE Girl Friend Filter Test anyhow!


My favourite art museums are in 🇬🇧London, where i obvi have friends, mostly men (as are most of friends in general around 🌎🌏🌍)!

🇬🇧🏴🏴🇮🇪 people are very POLITE, have GOOD manners and lovely which is *WHY* i like them SO MUCH BETTER than people in this country!

Also, i just prefer their fashion, music, design and pretty much everything else!

It makes total sense as someone who read Literature (aka English Major) during uni!

i am definitely on Team 🇬🇧👑 Princess Kate Middleton who read Art History during uni with her future husband 🇬🇧👑 Prince William!

They are a PERFECT Love ❤❤ Match and will make EXCELLENT 🇬🇧👑Queen & 🇬🇧👑King!

Too bad his VERY STUPID brother SELECTED the *WRONG* DEMANDING Girl DESPERATE 👀 FOR Attention, Money & Influence to be his wife and caused the 🇬🇧family rift! 😡

If there is a constant 🔁 revolving door of staff who resign or jump ship elsewhere, that means THE PROBLEM is The DEMANDING DIVA!

The VERY OBVIOUS SOLUTION = DIVORCE!


ONLY in *this* country! 😅

It’s Taylor Swift’s Soon-To-Be-Husband 🏈 Travis Kelce & his brother Jason on a cereal box! 🥣

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Almost 1/2 moon! 🌓

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Painting by Alice Neel, 1 of my FAVORITE Painters!

i would definitely recommend watching the documentary of Painter Alice Neel, done by her Talented Filmmaker 🎥🎬 Grandson Andrew Neel!

Excellent and VERY INTERESTING documentary that i have seen twice at an art museum, the second time with a lovely girl friend  whose VERY WEALTHY
parents kindly hosted me for few days at their BEAUTIFUL apartment in 🇫🇷Paris, France.

She and her husband volunteered at a🇳🇵Orphanage, and i sent them a painting specifically created for the kids by a Famous Painter guy friend of mine per my request.

Few days later at a 🇫🇷Paris hotel, i randomly later met a now VERY Wealthy & Goodlooking, Stylish Creative & Innovative 💻 Guy who knows several mutual people as me!

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This would be fking *LIES* told by Compulsive Lying Idiot for his OWN *SELFISH* Agenda rather than HELPING people and MISINFORMATION spread by those IGNORANT STUPID people who believe it when in ACTUALITY, it’s the OPPOSITE!

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Actually, i don’t consider ladies in their 20s to be women yet!

They are still girls who are in the *MIDST* of developing — physically and emotionally — into a FULLY GROWN-UP Adult Woman and who have barely experienced life.

i definitely discourage girls in their 20s to settle down nor marry anyone!

The 20s are a time to explore, try NEW things, travel, date around to figure out what kind of FULLY GROWN-UP MATURE MAN you wanna marry and be his wife!

And MOST IMPORTANTLY, figure out *WHO* you are and learn to accept, embrace and love yourself FIRST as a Solo Single person!

Once you are COMFORTABLE being a Solo Single Person, you won’t tolerate bad nor disrespectful behavior from your romantic partner because you have Self-Esteem and SELF-RESPECT!


Artistic Integrity is important and a quality (INTEGRITY) that i respect and admire!

Integrity tends to degrade ⬇⬇ with money tho.

The more ⬆⬆ accumulation of wealth, the increase in ⬆⬆ temptations and PRETTY things to buy and play with (including people).

Majority of (straight) Wealthy Men have played with 👙👠👠 Shallow Beautiful Women (usually in their 20s!) whether they realized or not that *THEY* were the ones being PLAYED with and BOUGHT her “affections & love” with their money! 💎💍👛 🇫🇷👜

These would be the Idiot Wealthy Men *STUPID* enough to fall for the PHYSICAL 👙👠👠 beauty of Golddiggers and had *NO CLUE* that they were being manipulated!

The REALLY STUPID Wealthy Men are the idiots who go on to 💍 marry a Golddigger 👠👠 who would definitely LEAVE HIM for another wealthy man *IF* he ever lost ALL his wealth!


🇬🇧Radiohead poster at indie music store

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Tripping past your ego with Michael Pollan 🍄

https://youtu.be/RMXu7Fn_bZc


Personally, the *ONLY* person i am interested in conversing with about this POTENTIALLY VERY HARMFUL & DANGEROUS 🖥💻 thing which *NEEDS* 🌎🌏🌍 Global guardrails ASAP is 🇬🇧🇨🇦 Geoffrey Hinton, 2024 Nobel Prize Winner!!
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🇿🇦Tyla - “To Last”

A PERFECT Album and the *BEST* Debut Album by a NEW Musician that i have EVER heard in years!! 💜❤

And 🇿🇦Tyla is NATURALLY fking gorgeous!!

She should definitely watch out for UNSAVORY older men, thankfully one is locked up!

AGE APPROPRIATE dating = *BEST*!

i’m sure Taylor Swift could share HER experiences of being with an IMMATURE MUCH OLDER ManCHILD!

https://youtu.be/1BjY3cL7TJk?feature=shared


The PRETTY SELL-OUT Young 🗽 Artist *whoring* herself out is an actual person whom i read about and have discussed with Very Talented & Attractive Wealthy Artist & Musician!

Obvi, i have ZERO respect for her as a Creator nor as a woman! 0.00% RESPECT!!

He’s OLD ENOUGH to be her grandfather! ICK!

Apparently, having her MEDIOCRE 🖼🖼🖼🖼 sell for millions of 💰💰💰💰💰💰 is worth it to her tho!

And i’m sure *SHALLOW* SELLOUT Bitch is enjoying the luxurious jetsetting ✈🏝 💎👑👠👠 life!

Perhaps she owns several 🇫🇷Birkins now! 🙄


Like in pretty much EVERYTHING in ACTUAL *REAL* LIFE, it’s ALL ABOUT *WHO* you know!

The cream 🥛 does *NOT* necessarily ⬆🆙⬆ rise to the🔝

There are plenty of MEH Mediocre Artists & Creators who get famous and wealthy simply because they know the RIGHT people with the 🔗🔗🔗🔗🔗🔗 connections!

Mostly, Nepo Babies and children of Wealthy, Famous and “VIPs”!

(Or if you are a PRETTY Young Artist who is dating and fucking a MUCH OLDER “VIP” Gallery Owner, then her 🖼🖼 🖼🖼 may sell for millions of 💰💰💰💰💰💰 so she’s basically a Whore in my view!

At least a Whore is HONEST and TRANSPARENT about WHAT she is actually selling, so i *RESPECT* the latter MORE!)

And for me, simply having mastered technical skills is still *NOT* THE SAME AS HAVING *EXCEPTIONAL* ARTISTIC TALENT (mostly INTUITIVE!) that they were born with!

An example of latter would be Composer 🇦🇹Wolfgang Amadeus Mozart! 🎹

Proficient Technical Skills
≠ NATURAL Artistic TALENT


Henri Matisse
 “Blue Nudes”  1952

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#ArtILikestr


Quim Fabregas

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#PhotographyILikestr


i am of the belief that *TRUE* ARTISTIC TALENT is *INNATE* and that they were born with that natural inclination for their abilities!

🖋🎨🖼 📷📽🎥 🎶🎼🎤🎸🎻🎧

Another person can take classes and learn techniques, but it’s not the same!

The person blessed with *NATURAL* Artistic Skills are far better and so are their creations.

The abilities of creatively gifted Artistic people will show up when they are just a child!

i have had many hours of conversation with a very talented Artist & Musician about this and he thinks anyone can learn artistic skills and also produce just as good art.

i DISAGREE!


One of my Fashion Designer & Fashion Illustrator (also Painter, Photographer, Musician, AMAZING Artist at everything!) friends in NYC knew these kids back when they were throwing parties. 🎧

She was *NOT* impressed by them!

She’s the MOST *TALENTED* & COOLEST Girl i have ever known thus far in my life!

Obvi, she’s *NOT* shallow nor stupid and would NEVER EVER play with shallow, plastic people!

One of her ex-boyfriends was also a Fashion Designer for John Varvatos.

https://youtu.be/Eoa6B2Y_mGI?feature=shared


If you are the kind of person who are merely silent and DO NOTHING while something BAD is happening or someone else is in distress, then you are like majority of people aka sheep!

🐑🐑🐑🐑🐑🐑🐑🐑🐑🐑🐑🐑🐑🐑🐑🐑🐑🐑🐑🐑🐑🐑🐑🐑🐑🐑🐑🐑🐑🐑🐑🐑🐑🐑🐑🐑🐑🐑🐑🐑🐑🐑🐑🐑

Unfortunately, the REALITY is that *MOST* people are sheep!

i am THANKFUL for the small percentage of COURAGEOUS People aka The Helpers who ACTUALLY HELP, Speak Up 📢📣 and DO SOMETHING rather than merely being a sheep of many!


Autumn leaves! Nature. Changing colors of Fall, my favorite season now! 🍁🍂

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🎃🎃🎃

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Different varieties of pumpkins! 🎃

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Autumn leaves! Nature. Changing colors of Fall. 🍁🍂

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Pumpkin! 🎃

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The *ACTUAL* Genius 💡 is often a 🎀Woman who doesn’t get the credit she DESERVES nor widely known around 🌎🌏🌍 simply because she’s a 🎀 WOMAN and most men’s ego can’t handle a woman who is *SMARTER* than them!


The best way to predict your future is to create it.

                🧘♀ 🧘♂ 🧘


best public transport 🇸🇬

According to John Fairfield, professor of history and urban development at Xavier University https://image.nostr.build/371c13a5acb3e8706cef2fc119a57d1df5a8646dda770f1cf8ed0174966b7511.jpg


When Ultra Wealthy & Those Living in a Bubble 🫧  of Endless Money &
PRIVILEGES spend *TOO* MUCH time ⏰ playing with OTHERS In a PRIVILEGED Bubble 🫧🫧🫧🫧🫧🫧 and spend *TOO* MUCH TIME 🧘🏼♂ and playing with PRETTY *SHALLOW* STUPID 👠👠 things, they make *POOR* decisions which have global 🌎🌏🌍 impact!

i suggest they be *LESS* ⬇⬇ SHALLOW and DO MORE THINKING and get back ⬇ down to his *HUMBLE* roots! 🌱


🇦🇹HVOB *LIVE* at Copa del Sol in Careyes, 🇲🇽Mexico for 🇫🇷Cercle (1:40:08)

Genre: Electronic 🎧🎹

🇦🇹Austrian 🇦🇹HVOB is 1 of my FAVORITE bands! 💜

https://youtu.be/XxSmY7VNaCk?feature=shared


Global 🌎🌏🌍 STABILITY of the world is at risk because of these 2 erratic, impulsive, LOW Emotional Intelligence men who are incapable of empathy!

It’ll be like putting 2 badly behaving SELFISH GREEDY toddlers in charge, chaos will reign, RIGHTS & FREEDOM WILL BE REVOKED OR TAKEN AWAY, and  irl damages will be huge!

*NO* Peace if they are given more power! 🕊☮✌

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i am SUPER FKING TURNED *OFF* by music with lots of swearing and overly sexual vulgarities like those of Doechii!

i suggest she LEARN TO BE MORE *CREATIVE and INTERESTING* as a Musician and create more beautiful music instead!


🇮🇸🇫🇴Kiasmos live for Cercle at Citadelle de Sisteron, France (1:28:28)

Genre: Electronic 🎧🎹

https://youtu.be/cxvdImFbNyQ?feature=shared


Taylor Swift - “Karma” ft Ice Spice

From album Midnights, which i consider to be a Perfect 10/10 album!

🕛 🌟

https://youtu.be/XzOvgu3GPwY?feature=shared


🌙

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Autumn!  🍁🍂

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i thought this was the *BEST* sketch from last night’s “SNL”, with a past “SNL” Star who is married to a Musician who i am not into but discovered years ago via a VERY TALENTED Folk/Country Girl Musician who was in a band with some other people i know, also talented! 😅

And yes, as a *NON* Privileged, *NON-spoiled* person *NOT* born into wealth as a Rich Bitch, i have done things like waited on SNL cast members in my younger days as a Waitress!

🍣🍱

https://youtu.be/e8oR4DB6SAA?feature=shared


If *ONLY* some people had MUCH BETTER Intuition and a 6th sense in SELECTING *BETTER* WORTHY people, his little toy may be *STILL* alive, rather than RUINED by An IMMATURE, IMPULSIVE, Erratic Toddler-Like ManCHILD with VERY LOW Emotional Intelligence & with history of years of being a TERRIBLE Boss at his companies!

That’s called being IMPRESSED by a User’s Fame & Money of a “VIP” when he did *NOT* deserve it and who has CAUSED irl DAMAGES & HARM to ordinary people before by his reckless behavior!

https://youtu.be/k1cGX_xvaKY?feature=shared


Hmm, interesting but i would say creating a 📈📉📋 presentation trying to find a ❤Romantic Partner = DESPERATE!

It’s *BEST* to meet people organically, IN *REAL* LIFE, PHYSICALLY!

Also, you can tell right away *IF* you are *PHYSICALLY* ATTRACTED to them, especially if you have a certain physical type, so LESS time wasted!

And ACTUAL chemistry between people is one of these things can *ONLY* be FELT and SENSED PHYSICALLY by 2 people!

Also, really?! 🤯

Some people have resorted to giving out Business Cards and handing them out to people they find attractive?

It’s BEST to *NOT* mix Professional and Personal lives, imho!

*STRICT* boundaries or it will often end up costing the company LOTS OF MONEY!

My FAVORITE section of my FAVORITE 📰 is of course, The Style section, as someone who is into Fashion and Style!


The guy KNOWS that his current girlfriend is *NOT* THE Girl he wants to 💍 marry, so i think he’s being a SELFISH Jerk stringing her along!! 😡

i would advise her and EVERY OTHER girl/woman to BREAKUP 💔 with your current romantic partner *IF* he hasn’t proposed within 2 years because that means he is *UNCERTAIN* aka YOU are *NOT* THE Girl he wants to marry, be his wife and have children with, if BOTH of you want kids!

Ladies, he’s a total fking WASTE of your time so LEAVE HIM 💔👋👣👣👣👣 and find a MUCH MORE HANDSOME Guy WHO KNOWS YOU are IT, 100% CERTAIN and TREATS YOU VERY WELL!

Your Future Husband will prioritize you, NO MATTER HOW BUSY nor important he may be!

And you will be kept in the loop 🔄 of what’s going on in his life, especially the IMPORTANT things!

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SURLY City also had THE MOST *MANIPULATIVE* people i have EVER encountered anywhere in the world! 🌎🌏🌍

LAZY, INCOMPETENT, MANIPULATIVE = BAD people whom i was kind to but definitely watched my back!

i have *NO* fond feelings for SURLY place! 😡


For those of you who don’t get the Jan and Marcia Brady reference, they are both characters from a vintage TV 📺 Series about a blended family, 3 boys & 3 girls when their parents got married.

Very wholesome! Cindy is the cutest child with adorable ringlets!

https://bradybunch.fandom.com/wiki/Jan_Brady


Skin Phillips 📸, Don Brown 🛹, Go Skateboarding Day, San Diego, 2007. https://image.nostr.build/5eaa91f7dffe06a340bc623aa6990ab0bad9316bff6f0a7d582cb6c3e66b1c48.jpg


SHANE GOES 2 🛹🔥

https://youtu.be/Q_5yQ-5zLXM


This is a really important thing for us to keep in mind when we talk about how to make open protocols and open social media. Digital communities can die in many ways, but one of the most common is one person or a small group behaving in an antisocial way and slowly driving everybody out of the space. Nobody wants to put their foot down and tell them to stop posting off topic, or enforce some moderation rules using the platform. So people leave that space to them and drift away.

Enforcing rules in a specific space is often seen as censorship. This is a mistake. If I invite you to my birthday party and you get drunk and start yelling in some drunken rant at everybody else in the party, it’s not censorship to kick you out of the party. You’re more than welcome to continue your drunken rants elsewhere, but the birthday party is something i convened and should be able to enforce rules and norms over that space.

There’s a time and a place for drunken debauchery but if you do that in the wrong space it’ll ruin the vibe and everybody else will leave. It would be censorship if you were not able to organize your own space on Nostr or elsewhere online, where you couldn’t post and talk to people.

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KK 🍩 > DD 🍩 (which i associate with RUDE UNFRIENDLY LAZY INCOMPETENT Assholes Jerky people i did *NOT* like and place i fking INTENSELY *DISLIKED* and once almost got hit in the face after clubbing with a guy friend when one of of his friends tried to intervene in a fight! 😡)

Surly Place *NEEDS* to work on making its people NICER, HELPFUL and WAY LESS HOSTILE ⬇⬇ ANGRY!

Perhaps MUCH LESS DRINKING 🍺🍺🍺 🍺🍺🍺🍺🍺 for its many people from 🇮🇪☘ would help!

Please accept the fact that NYC is Number 1 and you will *always* be Jan Brady!

Marcia Brady (NYC) is WAY PRETTIER & COOLER, NO CONTEST!

👸🏼Marcia WINS!

Marcia Brady > Jan Brady
New York City > SURLY City


Sky!

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Autumn leaves! 🍁🍂

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i will be MOVING OUTTA this country  i do *NOT* really like anymore nor its people who are The *MOST* ARROGANT & BOASTFUL people outta anywhere in the world 🌎🌏🌍

i will be LEAVING this country *SOLO* BY MYSELF (altho a guy friend who has a 🥰😍 crush on me did try to hint at me that he’d like to join me but that’s a HELL NO!), and i will *NOT* be taking care of anyone *UNLESS* i want to, and it’s rewarding for me!

And MOST IMPORTANTLY, i *ENJOY* spending time with them!

Obvi, they need to be FUN and do *NOT* cause my Stress Levels to go up ⬆⬆ dramatically and be lovely people i LIKE!


😶🌫🌊 https://image.nostr.build/5fe649669fe3dc3c83eb328e463899bdc087d1ab171c5082c35350a53206a28b.jpg


the sun is shining in london 🔆🍂

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It’s VERY STRANGE that i know so many people — of ALL ages, professions, types, nationalities, ethnicities/heritage/race, religion, poor, ultra wealthy, many Famous and VERY TALENTED, INTERESTING, SMART & INTELLIGENT and SUPER *PHYSICALLY* ATTRACTIVE and VERY DIVERSE, covering the global spectrum 🌎🌏🌍 — when i am *NOT* a People Person! 🤔

One thing which is a CONSISTENT factor is that i do *NOT* like nor play with SHALLOW People, especially STUPID 👙🍈🍈👠👠 👛🛍🛍🛍🛍🛍🛍🛍🛍 Bimbos nor the SHALLOW Men fucking them!


i’ll be doing a LOT *LESS* swearing *AFTER* moving across the pond to a Country that resonates with me BETTER and i *LIKE* its Lovely, Polite and Peaceful 🕊 PEOPLE MUCH BETTER!

A country with MUCH BETTER *PRIVACY* for its people!

And a country with not so many STUPID & IGNORANT people supportive of a Compulsive Lying Idiot and a country whose people VALUE *HONESTY* and being a GOOD person of character with INTEGRITY, Morals and GOOD Life Values!

And a country with MUCH *LESS* SHALLOW & SUPERFICIAL Vapid 👠👠Ladies and those who are considered to be pretty are the *NATURALLY* Born Beautiful!

And the women are allowed to age GRACEFULLY rather than attempting desperately to look like a 20something girl again!

Oh, and where the men aren’t so fking SHALLOW and they appreciate women CLOSE TO THEIR AGE!


Listening to Nirvana’s Nevermind album for the 1st time ever in my life!

i never got big into them altho know a girl who knew Kurt Cobain personally very well. She’s big into punk and we know many mutual indie bands, most famous. Her knowledge of music is very impressive!

And i have been to Kurt Cobain’s hometown in Aberdeen, Washington state for a Boeing engineer guy friend’s wedding.


Peace & Quiet. Solitude. 🕊

The stillness of night.  🌌

When  a person is completely at ease with WHO they are, there is no need to seek attention nor external validation.

They can simply just be.


Light pink dahlia flower!

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i think J.J. Abrams, who has directed a “Star Wars” film 📽 would love the tiny “Star Wars” music box as a prezzie!

J.J. Abrams and i have 2 mutual people, both who have won Emmy Awards, one VERY TALENTED woman who has collaborated with him on Bad Robot projects.

i was very surprised by how heavy the Emmy Awards statues🏆 were when lifted one since curious about it.

The other person, a man, has only won 1 Emmy Awards so far! The woman has multiple Emmys!

J.J. Abrams who talks superfast is someone whom i would call a Creative Genius!

The *ONLY* person i have ever call that!


i think coffee ☕, tea 🫖🍵 —  basically *NON* sugary water 🥤 — beverages WITH CAFFEINE being served at meetings would be VERY helpful and greatly appreciated by people whose brains are *NOCTURNAL* and functions best at night! 🧠🌌

Most creative people are NOCTURNAL! 🌃🌠


i am FOR people with Integrity, Honesty and Quality!

Compulsive Lying GREEDY SELFISH SELF-INTERESTED Assholes FAIL those standards!


Disclaimer: Just because i like a quote obvi doesn’t mean i am familiar with *WHO* the person attributed to whatever they may have said!

For instance, the quote i just re-posted, i had *NEVER* heard of him!

If he’s supportive of Compulsive Lying Idiot with 0.00% Integrity and *NO* MORALS nor Ethics, FUCK HIM and ALL THOSE SIMILAR TO HIM!

i’ll be 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼 for them to GO TO FUCKING HELL for their behavior!

🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥


Those people who develop the ability to continuously acquire new and better forms of knowledge that they can apply to their work and to their lives will be the movers and shakers in our society for the indefinite future. Brian Tracy


🇨🇦Feist - “Brandy Alexander”

From excellent album,
The Reminder, recommended to me by my UK BFF Forever Guy Friend!

https://youtu.be/AzzrkUmvGIE?feature=shared


Oh, i just realized Old Fashioned is an alcoholic drink🍹!

i don’t actually like Old Fashioned 🍹 and haven’t had one in years!

i am more of a Whiskey 🥃 Girl as in “You’re the kind of girl a guy can drink whiskey 🥃 with!” as told to me by a 🇫🇷French Dressshop Owner Guy Friend who had a crush on me.

Not sure what he meant by that, so i had to ask my Super Tall VERY Attractive Artistic & Wise Talented 🇳🇴Norwegian Guy Friend in 🇳🇴Oslo to decode that for me, and 🇳🇴he told me that it was definitely a MAJOR Compliment, meaning i’m *NOT* the typical Frou Frou Girly 🎀💅🏼 👛 👠👠Girl, the kind that i am DEFINITELY *NOT* friends with and personally find them SUPER FKING ANNOYING and most of them talk incessantly WAY *TOO* MUCH, usually about stupid, inane, trivial things! ICK!

And these kinds of girls usually shriek when they see each other when they get together to hang out!

👠👠👠👠👠👠👠👠👠👠

NO, thank you, i will *NOT* be joining these kinds of ladies for drinks🍹🍸🧉🍷🥂


Tiny Music 🎼🎶 Box, which i am keeping for myself as an Old Fashioned girl! (Meaning i would DEFINITELY FKING DIVORCE Cheating Bastard Husband!)

Frank Sinatra, “I did it my way”

i have stayed where Frank Sinatra grew up, twice! Both times with friends who were professional Models!

1st time at apartment of Models of both girls and guys, the girls were Waitresses and the guys were Waiters, since none of them were SuperModels, yet.

Obvi, i stayed in the room shared by the girl Models.

The 2nd time was an apartment of a guy friend, 1 from the other apartment and his roommate, who was a beautiful Model who had been engaged to a 🇪🇸Spanish girl whom he gushed about when we stayed up late conversing.

i later heard that he ended up cheating on her so that’s *REALITY* 💔 hitting, of most romantic ❤❤ relationships!

He had been a Model for major fashion brands, i can’t recall which ones but definitely recall being VERY IMPRESSED when he showed me his modeling portfolio!

He was SUPER HOT 🔥🔥🔥🔥and VERY PHOTOGENIC! And a nice person!

i can’t recall his name anymore tho so he must’ve been not *THAT* INTERESTING or my brain 🧠 would’ve retained that information!

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#TruthBeTold


i don’t do 🧘 because just *NOT* into it!

The ONLY time i ever tried 🧘 was when shown poses for a 📺 commercial, as a favor to a girl friend’s company but it wasn’t used.

In this country, i find the kinds of 🧘 liking girls and women to be SUPER ANNOYING and almost always from a PRIVILEGED background!

i DO have few girl friends who do 🧘 but one is also a Filmmaker 📽 and *NOT* stupid nor annoying and definitely *NOT* bubbly perky boring 👠👠 kinda girl whose friends are also VERY SIMILAR to them!

Most of *MY* friends are boys and men!


Palace of the Arts in Valencia, minutes after sunset.

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i think it’s always interesting to find out What Kinds of Woman Ultra Wealthy Men select as their romantic partners: She is ALWAYS PRETTY — the Number 1 and MOST IMPORTANT Factor and they’re usually Models — and not much substance nor depth.

And they definitely LOVE the luxurious ✈🏝💎🛍🛍🛍🛍🛍🛍👠👠lifestyle!

And she’s often really into 🧘

She is NEVER REALLY all that SMART tho nor that interesting, at least to me!

As long as she’s PRETTY and can massage the Ultra Wealthy Man’s EGO about his brilliance, that’s what Trophy 🏆 Girlfriends are there for!

At least this one is AGE *APPROPRIATE* tho!

And this Pretty Former Girlfriend of an Ultra Wealthy Man was smart enough to get preggers with his children so that she can ensure the LAZY Opulent Lifestyle she is used to continues!

But STUPID for her to have had children with a man *BEFORE* he popped the 💍 because personally, i am an old fashioned girl and think it’s *BEST* to be married first and have a FIRM life long commitment to your romantic partner *before* deciding to have kids together.

Alas, too bad their love story didn’t end with a Fairytale Happy Ending tho!

i would *NOT* be friends with either of the couple but do know quite a few of people from their country!

https://www.nytimes.com/2024/10/03/technology/pavel-durov-telegram-abuse-claims.html


Autumn leaves 🍁🍂

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Thankful to have met and conversed with so many quality people during Riga trip!

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As you get older, you realize good health and *QUALITY* people are what matters in life!


Feeling exhausted because my body’s immune system has been activated and just wanna eat comfy soup in PJs and catch up on watching TV series in bed! 🤒

But alas, must prep for a meeting and my brain not cooperating this morning.


Both pictures from October 2024 issues of Vogue and another fashion magazine.

i have conversed with a 🇫🇷🏳🌈Chloé Staff, in one of their New York City locations.

🇨🇺🏳🌈He was from a place i would *NEVER* EVER fking go again but known for 🍊🍋🟩🥧 and 🏰!

We chatted for quite a bit and he gave me several tiny perfume samples, but i don’t really like the 🇫🇷Chloé scent.

i can’t recall his name anymore but enjoyed conversing with him and we discussed 🇫🇷Paris and other things.

🇫🇷Chloé had a different Creative Director then tho!


VERY pretty! 💜

The 🇫🇷CHLOÉ dress and the Model, great facial bone structure!

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🇫🇷Françoise Hardy, another French Style Icon, like 🇬🇧🇫🇷Jane Birkin!

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Gooooood Mooooooorning, Somewhere along Costa Vicentina...(my pic)

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#CristalinaPhotography


Night Night. 🌙
Time to sleep 🥱

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#SweetDreams


For those of you who are UNAWARE, there is a BIG *DIFFERENCE* between nostr:npub1sn0wdenkukak0d9dfczzeacvhkrgz92ak56egt7vdgzn8pv2wfqqhrjdv9 and another 🇦🇺man wanted by 🇸🇪people because of what he allegedly did to a 🇸🇪woman, WITHOUT her consent nor permission!

i BELIEVE HER!

And there has been more than 1 woman, and i pretty much ALWAYS BELIEVE The *Woman* because it’s VERY RARELY the case that a woman makes up such stories of UNWANTED UNGENTLEMANLY Behaviour!

Thus, i *ONLY* Like and SUPPORT the first man!

May i suggest those who are CLUELESS about such things to look into them by reading 🇬🇧📰📰!!


🇬🇧The Kills - “Last Day of Magic” (Official Video)

Song from PERFECT album, Midnight Boom.

They were fantastic live! And SEXY!

https://youtu.be/JkEwk7wZVV8?feature=shared


Have i mentioned that i especially do *NOT* like Shallow people?


It’s the Last Day of 🇫🇷Paris Fashion Week!

i’m pretty certain my 🇫🇷French Photographer Guy Friend is there, shooting 📷

It’s been a while since we last communicated, and 🇫🇷___ was excited to hear from me and had been in the midst of editing Ralph Lauren photos.

🇫🇷He used to be married to a Vogue Editor years ago; he knew Artist Andy Warhol from Studio 54 days! Super cool!

🇫🇷French Photographer Guy Friend who kindly hosted me at his apartment in 🇫🇷Paris told me about another Fashion Designer whom i had never heard of before but whose designs had punk elements.

It’s someone — now dead  — whom Fashion Designer 🏳🌈Marc Jacobs also knew, and 🏳🌈Marc also knows a Beautiful Male Model and VERY TALENTED 🎨🖼🖌Artist who is now based in 🇫🇷Paris but whom i randomly met in 🇬🇧London. Artist was very kind to me and helped me!

Anyway, Last Day of PFW means it’s also the *LAST* Day for Wealthy & Famous men to pluck *WHICH* Pretty Model or Actress they wanna play with next!

BETTER SELECT A VERY PRETTY ONE, high functioning 🧠 brain capacity nor depth of character definitely *NOT* a requisite as long as she is HOT 🔥🔥🔥🔥 and Super Fuckable!

i think it’s VERY SAD & PATHETIC that Leo is indeed at PFW and NOT AT ALL SURPRISING that he was at the Parties of Debaucheries of Famous & Wealthy ABUSIVE Man, now locked up!

Personally, i think Pretty Young Models or Actresses who are of age but SIGNIFICANTLY YOUNGER who are for some *UNKNOWN* reason 😱😲🙀 attracted to MUCH *OLDER* Men because these SHALLOW Girls are impressed by fame, wealth and power and who fuck, date and marry men OLD enough to be their fathers and grandfathers are FKING STUPID!

POWER Imbalance, GREEDY SHALLOW LAZY Bitches!

And what exactly do MUCH YOUNGER PRETTY Girls who weren’t born when the MUCH *OLDER* IMMATURE ManCHILDS were teenagers converse about??


🇭🇷2CΞLLOS - *LIVE* Performance at 🇦🇺Sydney Opera House (Full Concert, 1:36:22)

Beautiful Stringed Instrument Music!

🎻 [Cello Emoji] 💜😍

https://youtu.be/KbYgRXJmi6k?feature=shared


i tried conversing with a girl this summer at an event and asked her, “What do you do?”

Her: “I want to get into philanthropy.”

Me, thinking internally: Oh, i see. You’re obviously not wealthy and very vague with replies and *NOT* transparent at all, so i assess her as YET *ANOTHER* Pretty Girl Golddigger trying to get ATTENTION 👀 of and land herself a Very Wealthy Man!

No, she’s *NOT* a quality person, don’t wanna connect nor be friends with her!

And she wasn’t as pretty nor SMART as me!


i actually fking LOATHE the Start button functionality to start a car and MUCH PREFER an old school *PHYSICAL* 🔑 key!

The button gets stuck when it gets cold in ☃❄ Winter!

i also MUCH PREFER *TANGIBLE* PHYSICAL buttons for other features of a car because it’s MUCH EASIER to use and adjust them while driving vs having to look at a computer 💻 screen and look at menu options, which is MUCH MORE *DANGEROUS* while using a car and which can seriously injure or kill people!

There are WAY TOO MANY *UNNECESSARY* things that are going digital when it only makes fixing them MORE ⬆⬆ COSTLY and if one part malfunctions, it affects OTHER parts since 💻 systems are all connected!

Also, fyi, anything digital CAN BE HACKED!

It is *NOT* necessary to connect so many things and make it digital when *OLD* way was MUCH MORE STABLE, LASTING and LESS EXPENSIVE to FIX!

And if there is an electricity grid FAIL or Outage which last for days, you are fked since can’t use anything!


When you build vehicles with remote functionality, you get security and privacy problems like this. For the love of God, please stop building cars with the ability to lock/unlock, stop/start the engine from an app or a website.

https://www.wired.com/story/kia-web-vulnerability-vehicle-hack-track/


Unstoppable 🧡🌊😉🎢
#bitcoin https://image.nostr.build/5dd025fd29dd6e4d7a328feb48f5b430691edce7013e125842d0d1694554a5ef.jpg


Simplicity has been difficult to implement in modern life because it is against the spirit of a certain brand of people who seek sophistication so they can justify their profession.

—Taleb


if a jerk tells you the truth it's still the truth


Pumpkin 🎃
Autumn. (Fall). Nature.

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Flower & plant! Nature!

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How is the lovely 🇦🇺Australian guy friend’s NEW music coming along and *WHY* haven’t i heard his previous albums yet?! 😡


Unlike many men who date Pretty (usually stupid!) Models when  they get famous and rich, i won’t be doing that because i am *NOT* shallow nor a man!

There’s no appeal for SHALLOW Pretty Things *without* SUBSTANCE for me!


Once my book is finished and published, i’ll have to have a public life.

i have never been into fame nor being in the limelight, so that’s not something i am looking forward to but a necessity as an Author to sell books. 🖋


Incredible! PURE TALENT!!

🇬🇧RAYE Performs “Genesis”

https://youtu.be/ohp0pOCzJ1k?feature=shared


GM 🌞
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The *BIGGEST* factor in determining whether i LIKE a place or NOT is its people!

If i don’t like the people, i WILL LEAVE to get the fuck *AWAY* from them because as a NON-people person, i am very sensitive to *OTHER* people’s moods and their vibes/energy!

If the people are very hostile, *NOT* helpful, UNFRIENDLY and INCOMPETENT & LAZY JERKS, it is a place that i do *NOT* like!

i much prefer places that i can be my PEACEFUL & CHILL self!

And it is definitely *NOT* this country!

🕊☮✌


🇳🇴Röyksopp - “Running To The Sea” ft 🇳🇴Susanne Sundfør

🇳🇴Norway would be a country that i *DO* like and its 🇳🇴PEACEFUL 🕊☮ ✌people!

i recently met and spoke to a 🇳🇴Norwegian Musician about 🇳🇴Susanne Sundfør, whom i discovered via a Very Wise and Super Attractive & Super Tall Artistic 🇳🇴Norwegian guy friend randomly met in Seattle, a city that i LOVE, during brief *SOLO* holiday *AWAY* from city i fking INTENSELY DISLIKED because of its people!

https://youtu.be/eaGpdhienMk?feature=shared


🇬🇧Zoot Woman - “Things Are What They Used To Be”

🎹

https://youtu.be/vK83j4uMF3U?feature=shared


It is not a sign of weakness, but a sign of high maturity, to rise to the level of self-criticism. Martin Luther King Jr., American civil-rights activist and leader (1929–1968)


This !

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#TruthBeTold


Frankly, i don’t fking like this country anymore!

And my previous posts are about a topic i fking LOATHE, do *NOT* enjoy and don’t find interesting at all!

However, i DO stay informed because as an intelligent person and someone who can see the BIGGER Full 🖼 Picture of what would happen to the world 🌎🌏🌍 *IF* Compulsive Lying Idiot with 0.00% Integrity gets power again because of power hungry people who are willing to support a man whom they KNOW deep down inside their heart is *UNFIT* to be a leader, a TERRIBLE CHEATED-ON-EVERY-Wife husband, TERRIBLE father except perhaps towards his favorite Fake Blondie daughter whom he wants to fuck, TERRIBLE Businessman (many bankruptcies!) and just a TERRIBLE human being who has used tactics to divide people!

Your apathy and indifference in *NOT* helping retain Democracy is something that YOU and Your Children (especially daughters!) are going to DEEPLY REGRET, when your Rights and Freedom are taken away!

THINK ABOUT THAT!!


🇬🇧Wham! - “Freedom” (Live from Top of the Pops 1984)

Rest In 🕊☮✌Peace, 🌈George Michael!

https://youtu.be/nrYk0TqUWMg?feature=shared


If *YOU* want your Rights and FREEDOM SEVERELY LIMITED or GONE, then go right ahead and *NOT* vote!

It’s fking OBVIOUS that *YOU* HAVE TAKEN HAVING RIGHTS & FREEDOM for granted!

Just like a Very Pretty Woman who WILL FKING LEAVE YOU if you take her for granted and be a LAZY bum, Democracy *NEEDS* ACTION!!


Imho, people who don’t vote are fking STUPID!

Unless you are wealthy and can move to some paradise 🏝 island, you have to LIVE with the consequences if an UNETHICAL Compulsive Lying Idiot gets power again!

It WILL AFFECT EVERYONE globally *IF* that happens!!

Fking WAKE THE FUCK UP TO REALITY!

Democracy does *NOT* just happen by itself!


Pondering whether i should have a drink or not since there are some things i should work on! 🤔

🍹🥃🍷🍸 🍏🍺


It’s gonna make my other Musician guy friend who also knows him VERY JEALOUS!


Interesting! A famous Musician i know has a NEW album out now!

i haven’t listened to him in years!


Pretty flowers!

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🍎🍎🍎🍎

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🍏

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Honey 🍯🐝

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Solo dining!


🇬🇧Bonobo - “Cirrus” (Official Video)

https://youtu.be/WF34N4gJAKE?feature=shared


i have TOO many friends and people i personally know who have Wikipedia pages, so no idea how many total it is now.

Too many to keep track of!

It’s like, Oh, yet *ANOTHER* person i know who has a Wikipedia page?! 🙄

It has reached the ridiculous stage by now because there are too many of them!


Where the hell is my VERY GOODLOOKING minion with my coffee ☕ ?! 😡


i obvi know multiple very TALENTED & SMART people who have been awarded a Guggenheim and Fulbright but only 1 Pulitzer Prize Winner tho, thus far.


“Are you an Architect?”

Me: No, i’m just really into [GOOD] design and space! And architecture!


It’s cool to personally know TALENTED people whose art works are at major art museums around the world!

i had impromptu dinner with an Artist last night and he’s a pretty significant important person in his field & industry, which i had no clue about till i looked him up today.

Obvi, we discussed SUBSTANTIAL topics, and he was unpretentious and a very real, kind, interesting and lovely person of integrity.

Fame is not something either of us craves nor sought, but we both know famous people, some extremely wealthy.


Met and conversed with several VERY talented and awards winning Artists, who have Wikipedia pages and one who has received a  Guggenheim Fellowship.


Pink sunset sky!

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Is this sticker worth anything NOW?

A Data Scientist, met via a helpful & generous lovely guy friend, took me to a W.W. space years ago.

Personally, i would *NOT* have invested in this and idea 💡 was nothing brilliant!

Those who bought into it were obvi STUPID, and they also lack a good Bullshit Detector for people who have grandiose ideas, but in actuality, meh and nothing really innovative nor new, just packaged differently!

And yet many Fools believed in his 🦄

i haven’t seen the TV Series about the rise and fall of W.W., starring Oscar Winner 🏆Jared Leto yet, but NOPE, i would *NOT* be friends with the couple!

Both people would have *FAILED* my VERY *SELECTIVE* Friends Criteria List Test!

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GOOD MORNING NOSTR, A LOT CAN BE LEARNED FROM THE DISASTER THAT WAS WEWORK.

MANY WARNING SIGNS PEOPLE IGNORED.

- BOOST TOP LINE REVENUE NOT PROFIT
- RUSH TO IPO
- CULT CEO

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Remember, the company you keep and those whom you *CHOOSE* to be surrounded by and play with is a reflection of *WHO* YOU ARE and your life values!


Many people are just selfish and cannot see *beyond* themselves.

No point in arguing nor engaging with them because people rarely change *WHO* they are internally!

It’s a fruitless attempt and a total WASTE of your time!

It’s best to simply walk away and cut them outta your life.

👣👣👣👣👣


i am thankful for people who are helpful to OTHER people, out of the pure goodness of their ❤ heart and not with an agenda nor ulterior motive which benefit them!

And also thankful and grateful for people who are *NOT* motivated by accumulation of wealth and whose love, friendship nor influence can be bought.

Alas, this is a teeny tiny percentage of people around the 🌎🌏🌍

Altruism DOES exist!


🇦🇺Cut Copy - “Lights & Music”

i was very disappointed that an 🇦🇺Australian guy i invited to dinner (along with another person) didn’t bring back a 🐨 koala bear for me! 😡

He and i have, of course, conversed quite a bit about many topics, and i learned that in 🇦🇺Australia, the toilet water swirls 🍭🍥 in the *OPPOSITE* direction!

i think i may know a very nice and lovely 🇦🇺Australian who may be friends with or know 🇦🇺Australian band 🇦🇺Cut Copy, a FUN 🎹 band that i have seen twice, once SOLO cuz no one cool enough who wanted to join me!

i have yet to hear this 🇦🇺Australian Musician’s music tho! 😡

https://youtu.be/8R1X2TxW5Rk?feature=shared


To know what is right and not to do it is the worst cowardice. Kung Fu-tzu Confucius


Peace can only come as a natural consequence of universal enlightenment and merging of races, and we are still far from this blissful realization. Nikola Tesla


Commit yourself to lifelong learning. The most valuable asset you'll ever have is your mind and what you put into it. Brian Tracy


We must learn to live together as brothers or perish together as fools. Martin Luther King Jr., American civil-rights activist and leader (1929–1968)


"If you truly love someone, there is no reason to cheat. Love is built on trust, respect, and commitment. Cheating, in any form, destroys that foundation. There’s no such thing as "micro-cheating" because any act of disloyalty, no matter how small, breaks the trust in a relationship.

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If you're not happy or fulfilled, it's better to be honest and communicate rather than hurt the person you claim to love. Cheating is a choice, not a mistake. True love doesn't need lies or deceit—it requires honesty, respect, and dedication.

In the end, if you truly value someone, you wouldn't risk losing them for a moment of temptation. Respect the relationship, and if it’s not working, walk away before causing harm."

Not my writing but I agree 💯!

#MyBeliefs


For me, it’s always *QUALITY* over quantity, including people and material things!

QUALITY > quantity

One *TRUE* friend and people whom you truly connect with and who *KNOW* you is better than a bunch of meh, fair weather friends/people who come and go.

You’ll be able to tell exactly who is a True Friend *WORTH* having and keeping in your life and those who scatter like dust when you are going through life’s struggles.

The latter will, however, suddenly show up and act like your BFF if/when you hit great fortune and success in your life.

Do *NOT* be fooled!

It’s your sudden good 💰💰💰💰💰💰fortune, riches, 🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆 awards and success they are drawn to and *NOT* who you are internally since they did the disappearing act during a low moment in your particular life stage and which *EVERYONE* will goes through in their lifetime.


Radically NICE!  😅

https://youtu.be/3tP35y8tblU?feature=shared


Desi Lydic is always hilarious and SHARP!

😅

https://youtu.be/uUhcuRvVEpI?feature=shared


And it’s a good thing that i am VERY ORGANIZED and have my *OWN* system, unlike *OTHER* people who are disorganized, which of course, inadvertently affects ME! 😡

And *i* end up having to waste *MY* valuable time having to compensate for THEIR disorganization! 😡

i appreciate CAPABLE and EXCELLENT people whom i don’t fking have to waste *MY* VALUABLE TIME because of *OTHER* people’s inadequacies!


i do *NOT* fking enjoy nor appreciate having to take care of *OTHER* people’s things constantly and *MY* VALUABLE time wasted in which *i* could be working on *MY* OWN creative projects!! 😡

Definitely fking LOOKING FORWARD TO LEAVING and moving to a place across the pond, to a country i *LIKE* MUCH BETTER, especially its lovely and polite people!!


i greatly appreciate working with people who are excellent, *KNOW* what they are doing and most importantly, they FOLLOW THRU on their words with ACTION!

Much LESS wasting of MY *VALUABLE*  time!


And here’s *HOW* i feel about Hippy Dippy *CLUELESS* about ACTUAL Life Struggles people because they have *ONLY* ever lived a CLUELESS PRIVILEGED 🫧 Life because born into money and *NEVER* had to actually fking DO ANYTHING ON THEIR *OWN*, without it being handed to them by their Wealthy parents or via their connections, otherwise known as Nepotism and those currently living in a CLUELESS PRIVILEGED Life of Endless Money and MANY PRIVILEGES Bubble 🫧 :

🙄

i wonder *which* PRETTY SHALLOW STUPID Model/Girl he’ll be playing with next?!

Which 20s Model, half his age and who could be his daughter or granddaughter?

INAPPROPRIATE Pairing!

ICK! GROSS!

GROW THE FUCK UP to an ACTUAL, PROPER *FULLY* Grown-Up Man!


🇦🇹HVOB - “Window”

(🇬🇧Boiler Room, 🇦🇹Vienna LIVE 🎧 Set)

https://youtu.be/cxBl2v0pzEM?feature=shared


i know MANY people — globally 🌎🌏🌍 — including lots of Famous, Wealthy and “VIPs” as well as 🚔, so if you mess with me or PISSED 😡😡 ME OFF, *YOU* are screwed!

And i *RARELY* forgive, so do it AT YOUR OWN RISK!

Thankfully, i am *NOT* a vengeful kinda person, but i *DEFINITELY* believe in ACCOUNTABILITY for people’s actions and for *HOW* they treated another person aka Karma!


If all your info is digital, whether you are a person or a company, i think you are STUPID!

Because you or/and company may be targeted by an unscrupulous & bad person, and the info you have online may be completely gone or held hostage till you pay!

And there are times when you won’t be able to access it and OFFLINE, or the electricity grid fails!

Or if you are a very physically attractive person and have a CREEPY males problem for years, they may attempt to hack into your 📱🖥 💻 and other things, which BAD PERSON will definitely fking be PUNISHED and serve many, many years of prison time!

And be SUED FOR DAMAGES for causing much distress, for INVASION OF PRIVACY, delaying projects and impacting life of a person seriously in a major, significant way! 😡


🇦🇹HVOB - “Ghost”

https://youtu.be/kOtPs7jIbyo?feature=shared


i still much prefer receiving old school physical Business Cards!

They should be well-designed and the Company/Business should have a good, simple logo.

It’s easier and faster for me to write on them, make note of when i met a person and few other details about them and our interaction.

Overall, i much prefer *TANGIBLE* things!


Tori Amos - “Precious Things”

Tori is my *FAVORITE* ✝ P.K. (i know quite a few, including a guy who is Wealthy and met in 🇫🇷Paris!)

And of course i know 🇬🇧British people who know Tori and a 🇬🇧British Playwright who has interviewed her, who lived in 🇬🇧London at the flat with the Lovely Gorgeous girl friend who lived near 🇬🇧Rough Trade Indie Music Store!

We all went out for drinks at a 🇬🇧pub!

https://youtu.be/e6z2wE8ECao?feature=shared


i suggest LEAVING S.V. Bubble 🫧 of CLUELESSNESS and GET MORE IN TOUCH WITH REALITY and ACTUAL *REAL* People who are *NOT* fking SHALLOW!


Autumn (Fall) 🍂🍁

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Unfortunately, some people who live in a Wealthy & PRIVILEGED 🫧 have *TERRIBLE* record of SELECTING people!

i personally have ZERO fking respect for a woman who shagged many WEALTHY Men and WASTED millions of dollars on a 🏈 SB ad!

And the ONLY reason *WHY* she has lots of money is because of her Ex 🖥💻 SuperGeek Husband!

She’s also SUPER status seeking, exactly the kind of person i fking do *NOT* like cuz FKING SHALLOW!

And apparently cheated so yet ANOTHER reason why i have 0.00% RESPECT for her!

i would *NOT* be friends with her nor her 🧘 friends!


🇧🇪Angèle - “Balance Ton Quoi”

i think 🇧🇪🏳🌈Angèle is SUPER 🔥🔥 HOT & Talented!!

Merci Beaucoup! 🧠 👓

https://youtu.be/Hi7Rx3En7-k?feature=shared


Honesty and transparency make you vulnerable. Be honest and transparent anyway. Mother Teresa, Indian-Albanian Catholic saint (1910–1997)


I can do it with a broken heart 🎧

https://youtu.be/Sl6en1NPTYM


GN #Nostr 🫂🎨🌙
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And FYI, if you marry someone who has cheated on you previously, before the 💍engagement, i think YOU are fking STUPID!

Because the chance and probability of that WEAK & SELFISH person cheating on you AGAIN is VERY VERY HIGH!

⬆⬆⬆⬆

i would advise to LEAVE 💔 the WEAK & SELFISH CHEATING Bastard/HO and find a BETTER, MUCH MORE PHYSICALLY Attractive *NEW* Romantic Partner, who has NEVER EVER cheated!!

Remember, Divorce can be VERY NASTY and hella expensive!

Best to be VERY SUPER *SELECTIVE* in *WHOM* you 💍 marry!


As a person with INCREDIBLY *HIGH* STANDARDS in life values, morales & ethics and a FIRM belief in LOYAL & FAITHFUL *COMMITMENT* TIL DEATH ☠⚰🪦 to your 💍 spouse, i FROWN UPON WEAK & SELFISH people who CHEAT with other people who are *NOT* their spouse!

Do *NOT* get married if cannot stay FAITHFUL & LOYAL to your Wife/Husband! 😡

Stay Single and shag whoever & how many you want but make sure to USE A DAMN CONDOM, *EVERY* SINGLE TIME for your health & safety and for *NO* accidental (or intentional by SHALLOW Golddigging LAZY HOs!) preggers!

Let me think. . . do i have any girl friends who are/were Mistresses?

HELL NO!! i have 0.00% RESPECT for Mistresses!! 😡


🇬🇧🇦🇱Dua Lipa, 🇧🇪Angèle - “Fever”

🇬🇧🇦🇱Dua and 🇧🇪Angèle would be the kinds of *NON-Shallow* & *NON-Trampy* Super Hot 🔥🔥, Talented, SMART and INTERESTING Ladies whom i would be girl friends with!!

Especially 🇧🇪🏳🌈Angèle because i 💚 LOVE 🇫🇷French things and get along super well with 🇫🇷French speaking people, including 🇧🇪Belgians, who make the *BEST* dark chocolate 🍫 in the world, imho!

Doubtful either girls are the types of IMMORAL, SHALLOW, TRAMPY girls who would be a Mistress nor the kinds of LAZY DESPERATE for 💍 girls who shag wealthy men cuz DESPERATE TO BE A LAZY Wife & PRETTY Mummy!

Btw, people in 🇬🇧London are SO MUCH MORE POLITE and have lovely manners!

i have obvi been to 🇬🇧Camden several times, mostly solo but walked around there once with a Beautiful & Supertalented Artist who was a Model in NYC!

He was on the cover of _____ from his fashion modeling days when he was still a struggling Artist and which i have a copy of!

Awards Winning Artist is VERY TALENTED and now based in 🇫🇷Paris tho and famous celebrities & Fashion Designers own his paintings!

https://youtu.be/vs61OHs2g-w?feature=shared


When it’s the *RIGHT* Love ❤❤ Match and *BOTH* people know in their heart, brain and guts, it can happen SUPER FAST!

i have friends who met, had a date or two and then moved in together — all within 1 week!

They are *STILL* together, happily and *VERY* WELL-MATCHED!

They haven’t married yet tho since being practical and just bought a new apartment.

But i am certain, they *WILL* get married and that they are with their Forever Till Death ☠🪦 Romantic ❤❤ Partner!


Observations/Experiences:

Males do *NOT* like sharing 👀 attention of Pretty 🔥 and Smart Female Friends with their guy friends, as it’s Competition!

And Guys won’t give you info of another guy friend of theirs to their Very Pretty Girl Friend who asks, especially if their guy friend is a Famous & Wealthier person than them because he is afraid of LOSING her!

Men basically view *OTHER* men as COMPETITION and *EVERY* guy friends of their romantic ❤ partner (or PLATONIC Pretty 🔥 and Smart 🧠 Girl Friends) as a *potential* Threat who may STEAL her *AWAY* from him!

Fact: Males have VERY *DIFFERENT* concepts of friendships with opposite sex than Females!

Most men don’t really believe in the concept of *PLATONIC* friendships, *IF* the girl/woman is *PHYSICALLY* attractive!

They are *SECRETLY* hoping the Pretty & Smart Girl Friend will turn into a ❤ Girlfriend!


Know your WORTH, Ladies!

Do *NOT* settle for crumbs!

💪✊💥

KNOW *when* to walk away, for what you truly deserve!

👣👣👣👣

👢👢


Looking forward to meet you !

"Some men will walk into your life and change everything for you, give you another reason to live. Keep them close.

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They’ll challenge you in ways you never thought possible, pushing you to be stronger, braver, and more aligned with your true self. These men see the best in you, even when you can’t. They remind you of your potential and inspire you to reach for it, giving you the courage to break through limitations you once held as truths.

When these men enter your life, they don’t just offer companionship, they bring stability. You feel safe in their presence, knowing they’ll hold you in moments of weakness without judgment. Their touch, their words, and even their silences offer healing. They don’t rush your growth, but patiently walk alongside you as you evolve, supporting you with unwavering faith.

These men don’t shy away from your complexities; they embrace every layer. They honor your story—the battles you’ve fought and the dreams you’ve yet to pursue. They don’t try to change you but rather celebrate who you are at your core, reminding you that you are enough exactly as you are. It’s through this acceptance that you begin to heal deeper parts of yourself.

They will inspire you to dream bigger and love harder. With them, love feels like a safe space to explore your vulnerabilities. You’ll find yourself opening up in ways you haven’t before, trusting that they will hold your heart with care. These men understand the power of emotional intimacy, knowing it’s the foundation for a lasting, meaningful connection.

In their presence, you’ll learn to trust again—not just in others but in yourself. They help restore your faith in love, in goodness, and in the possibility of creating a life filled with joy and connection. Their belief in you allows you to rebuild your own belief in what’s possible.

They are the kind of men who take the time to truly know you, not just your surface-level desires but the dreams you hold in the quiet corners of your heart. They are curious about what lights you up and what keeps you up at night, always striving to understand you on a deeper level.

Their love isn’t just in the grand gestures; it’s in the little things. It’s in the way they remember the details, the way they listen when you speak, the way they show up even when it’s inconvenient for them. Their consistency is their promise, a reminder that they are here for the long haul.

With these men, you’ll feel seen in a way that’s rare. You won’t have to hide parts of yourself or pretend to be someone you’re not. In fact, they’ll encourage you to bring out even more of who you truly are. Their love gives you the freedom to be authentically you.

So when such a man enters your life, cherish him. Understand that what you’ve found is rare and sacred. Keep him close, not because he completes you, but because he complements you in the most profound ways. He’s the kind of man who makes the journey of life feel a little lighter, and the love between you feel like home."

- Abhikesh

#DivineLove


"Being with the wrong person will highlight all of your bad traits: your insecurities, neediness, jealousy, temper ect.
They will make you feel unwanted,unappreciated and unloved. You will feel drained mentally and emotionally around them. They will make you think you're not good enough or that you're asking for too much when in reality they have nothing to offer you.
Choose wisely!"

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Not my words but I agree 💯 !

#MyBeliefs


Occasionally, there are the *EXCEPTIONAL* ladies who have the Beauty, Brains, SUBSTANCE, Style, who are Nice/Kind, Sweet, Sincere, Humble, has a Great Personality and also VERY LIKABLE — like Amal Clooney — whom almost EVERY man would like to ideally marry!

And who is *NOT* a Demanding Diva but a lovely human being person whom almost everyone who has encountered them respects and admires!

But they are VERY FEW and far in between around the world 🌎🌏🌍

Obvi, these kinds of *RARE* woman have *THEIR* choice in *WHOM* they ultimately wanna 💍 marry and have no problem meeting *NEW* successful, PHYSICALLY attractive and interesting men and many men courting them!

And they are CLASSY, *NEVER* trampy and always VERY INTERESTING!

They have that “IT Factor” that other people can recognize, which they were born with and oozes without trying nor making an effort to cultivate, simply intuitive.


Advice to ALL Ladies, globally 🌎🌏🌍:

YOU need to be COMFORTABLE being *SOLO* and as a Single Person BY *CHOICE* FIRST, rather than constantly and DESPERATELY looking for a boyfriend for validation of your physical 👙🍈🍈 👠👠 attractiveness and ego!

Otherwise, you are going to keep experiencing *UNHEALTHY* behavior from the latest male you 😍🥰 like, shagging or/and dating!

And DESPERATE for an 💍 engagement ring to be a wife is a BAD & PATHETIC look!

*QUALITY* Men can sense that and will run the OTHER way because he *KNOWS* in his heart, brain and guts that you are *NOT* THE Girl he wants to 💍 marry, share his life with and can see as being the mother of his children!

Most men will STILL keep shagging you tho, so he’s essentially getting the milk🥛 for free when he has *NO* INTENTION of ever asking you to 💍 marry him!


The local shopgirl i befriended during trip and i are still in contact.

We’ve discussed substantial things about our lives, even the first time i met up with her and her lovely & sweet 🖥💻 Geek boyfriend on my last night of trip.

As women, she and i, of course, have discussed unworthy and immature males we have both encountered, a global 🌎🌏🌍 thing experienced by ALL ladies!

She and i have exchanged stories of LEAVING 💔 👋 👣 ex romantic partners who played WAY TOO MUCH BORING 🖥💻🎮 games, which i find SUPER BORING and a waste of time!

It’s *NEVER* the INTERESTING (nor very PHYSICALLY attractive!) people (mostly boys/men) who spend hours playing 🖥💻🎮 games!

Shopgirl friend told me when she met her current boyfriend, she FINALLY UNDERSTOOD *HOW* a woman should be treated!

And the only thing she now has to carry is her small purse because her MAN carries other things for her, like a PROPER considerate and thoughtful Gentleman who takes care of his woman!

*COMPATIBILITY* in Interests and what a person finds INTERESTING and what they *LIKE* TO DO in their free time = VERY IMPORTANT in romantic ❤ relationships!


zoefelicity

🖋💡🎨🖼 🎶🎼🎧🎹🎻📽📺
🌷🪷🌺🌻🪴🌲🌴🌎🌏🌍💫

Please note that i will *NOT* reply to any comments. Thanks!


Missing this lovely view as i am drinking morning coffee ☕

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🇬🇧Rough Trade Indie Label & music store!

LOVE! 💜💚❤

i had some UK friends who lived in this area in 🇬🇧London, one lovely & gorgeous girl in Fashion, Style & Trendforecasting industry.

https://www.timeout.com/london/shopping/rough-trade-east


The things that we love tell us what we are. Thomas Aquinas, Italian philosopher and theologian (1225–1274)


Happy Autumn (Fall)!  🍂🍁🎃

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The nostr theme song. https://i.nostr.build/aetzac2Qwc8VMvpZ.jpg


Today i am wearing a black top and a mini-skirt bought at a high street shop in 🇬🇧London, same outfit wore when my UK BFF Foreva and i hung out at a 🇬🇧Rough Trade indie music store in 🇬🇧London, which i LOVED! 💜😍

He’s obvi COOL, very sensitive & lovely, not shallow, helpful, super knowledgable about music and has excellent music taste!

Thankfully, i am also friends with his UK girlfriend and like her!

Favourite COOL music shop ever been to thus far anywhere in 🌎🌏🌍! 😍


Actually, a person *CANNOT* plan out their life, even if they may have an ideal path mapped 🗺 out!

Random *UNPLANNED* things and chance encounters will happen, some good and some TERRIBLE which will alter your trajectory!

The key 🗝 = Gotta learn to be FLEXIBLE and ADAPT, learn *NEW* things!

The Most Important Thing:

Keep going after failures, *LEARN* from failures & mistakes and even after encountering TERRIBLE people and INCOMPETENCE! 👣👣👣👣

And be VERY SUPER *SELECTIVE* in friends, whom you date, ❤ love and those *WORTHY* people whom you *WANT* in your life!

i personally have a standard of Integrity+Honesty+Quality and *NOT* shallow nor stupid people!


😀 #happy Sunday #Nostr #Bitcoin 💜🧡 https://image.nostr.build/3c344f179f165af937473d606ac60510063022b657a5272491d80476ac1c40b9.jpg


🔥

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#ILoveAutumn


This 🏴rhubarb & ginger 🫚 gin seems yummy, to make a cocktail! 🍹

i have, of course, conversed with 🏴Scottish lads, some who went on tour with a 🇬🇧British band, their gig which i saw for free with an artsy person!

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So many SHALLOW males are drawn to Pretty but stupid and SHALLOW Ladies! 🙄

May i suggest that these SHALLOW boys and men examine their SHALLOW physical attraction rather than looking *BEYOND* superficial surface beauty?

A shortcut way to tell *IF* a girl/woman is SHALLOW is via her girl friends!

What *KINDS* of girls/women are her girl friends?

Are they more likely to wear 👠👠 or 👢👢?

i like COMFY and well-designed shoes so rarely wear heels!

Also, most likely will hurt myself wearing 👠👠 since kinda clumsy!

*FUNCTION* over form for shoes!

(Most of my friends are boys and men!

ONLY VERY *RARELY* does a girl/woman make it past my SUPER HIGH EXTREMELY DIFFICULT TO PASS Girl Friend Filter Test!

And *MY* girl friends are ALL smart, interesting, not jealous nor insecure nor mean, and exactly ZERO shallow nor stupid ladies!)


Taylor Swift - “Look What You Made Me Do”

Taylor Swift > Everyone WAY *LESS* TALENTED who VERY STUPIDLY pissed 😡 her off cuz Taylor is obvi THE WINNER! 🏆🙌

i think Taylor got SMARTER & HOTTER 🔥🔥in the nick of time!

KARMA! 🔁

https://youtu.be/3tmd-ClpJxA?feature=shared


PERFECT Film 📽🎞 Recommendation:

With Gorgeous 1950s fashion and Beautiful style! 💜😍

“To Catch a Thief” (1955), starring Grace Kelly, 👑 Princess of 🇲🇨🇫🇷 Monaco, and 🇬🇧 Cary Grant, 1 of my FAVORITE Actors Ever!

Director: 🇬🇧 Alfred Hitchcock

https://youtu.be/6LNQXjKFKwU?feature=shared


Honeycrisp apples are my FAVORITE kinds of 🍎🍏 apples, perfect blend of sweet and tart, imho!

Red Delicious apples look good but not much taste.

They LOOK good but MEH inside, much like SHALLOW Pretty Girls who look great but MEH and *LACK* substance!

The only reason *WHY* i know what Delicious Red apples are from working as a grocery store cashier as a teen, 1 of 2 jobs i had for few years to earn money for uni as a NON-wealthy, NON-spoiled nor privileged girl!

Lifelong Observation: Rich girls are pretty much almost always SHALLOW & LAZY!

That’s because their parents SPOILED THEM ROTTEN and gave them everything!


🫧🫧 🫧🫧☔🌲🌲🌲🌲

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Clouds!

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SMART & Capable woman who know *WHO* they are and know what they want, they can negotiate an excellent deal!

WIN! 🎊 🎈🍾 🥂


It is *BEST* to date and MARRY someone in the *SAME* Life Stage as you!

*AGE* APPROPRIATE + SAME Life Stage

⬆⬆⬆⬆ Probability  & Chance

=

Foreva True Love ❤❤ & HAPPY FAITHFUL Marriage Til Death! ☠⚰


By Pretty Young Girls, i am talking about ladies up to their EARLY 30s, most who are *NOT* living a fully independent life of a FULLY Grown-Up Woman, especially if they live in a city and their friends more or less serve as their family!


Ladies, be AWARE of DARVO, from anyone you are dating, in a romantic relationship with or married to!

And again, Pretty Young Girls should *ONLY* date boys *NEAR* their age, in the *SAME* Generation and *NOT* any significantly MUCH OLDER men who may pursue them!

*AGE* APPROPRIATE dating and marrying for MUCH *LESS* probability and chances of being abused and exploited!

Younger Pretty Girls and OLDER & IMMATURE men =  ⬆⬆ Power Imbalance

&

⬆⬆⬆⬆ chance of YOU being abused/exploited!!

https://www.verywellmind.com/protecting-yourself-from-darvo-abusive-behavior-7562730


Angelina Jolie, a *NATURALLY* born beautiful, talented, intelligent, powerful woman with SUBSTANCE! 💪👊

A Humanitarian, doing *GOOD* for the United Nations!

i find Angelina Jolie SO MUCH MORE *INTERESTING* than the half his age nobody that Angelina’s elderly 60 years old ex-husband is dating, who is MUCH *LESS* attractive, whom no one had heard of before she started being his girlfriend!

The latter is the EXACT kind of 🍭🍬arm candy Pretty Girls 👠👠 i have *NO* RESPECT for since the *ONLY* reason WHY they have become “famous” is for the ManCHILD they are fucking!

Brad clearly STILL NEEDS TO GROW UP and do hella lot more *SELF-reflection* and work on his issues!

Perhaps then his children would forge a relationship with him again!

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Personally, having a Compulsive Lying Idiot — The *OPPOSITE* of Integrity+Honesty+Quality!! —
use Bitcoin makes me wanna *NOT* use it!

i am someone who CARES about Character of a person!

And INTEGRITY, HONESTY and being a QUALITY person who isn’t a GREEDY, SELFISH, SELF-Interested ME-ME-ME-I’m-The-Greatest! Narcissist who is OUT OF TOUCH WITH REALITY!!

At least there is humor in it tho!

From yesterday’s “Late Night With Seth Meyers” show, Thursday,  September 19, 2024.

https://youtu.be/pK15wcPqpcg?feature=shared


🇦🇹Gustav Klimt:  “The Kiss” (“Der Kuss”)

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mmm https://youtu.be/yh0mD3B2Uug


Intermittent reassurance is not love.
Cognitive dissonance is not love.
Being hot and cold is not love.
Emotional manipulation is not love.
DARVO responses are not love.
Love bombing is not love...

Love is open communication.
Love is striving for understanding.
Love is aligning words with actions.
Love is vulnerability and accountability.
Love is consideration, care and a consistent will to be better for one self and the other. https://image.nostr.build/710d980ea336c650bf6cb220ff5be1b8d7ea3c02150d7a75986702154310b710.jpg


So many damn *NOT* Quality made products that keep malfunctioning or breaking these days after few months of use! 😡

What the hell happened to Craftsmanship, Quality and Longevity?! 😡

Answer: GREED for profits and *intentionally* making things to break so people have to buy them again = Bullshit!

Total waste of my time and money!!!! 😡

And fyi,  *GOOD* Design & Simplicity is VERY IMPORTANT for EVERYTHING!!


QR code menus can fuck all the way off

when will society be done with this awful trend


Simon Sinek and Trevor Noah - friendship loneliness vulnerability

https://youtu.be/CNBxIhxHHxM


GM Nostr 🌞

It always comes back to the people you surround yourself with and what you chose to focus on. Don't get distracted by the shiny toys and the noise.


Btw, if you get married and are going to have an affair, i suggest doing it *OUTSIDE* your friend group!

Because it will kill friendships!

And it’s also a TERRIBLE, SELFISH thing to do *AFTER* you made a life long 💍 commitment to your spouse!

There is a thing called Divorce!

DIVORCE your spouse *BEFORE* getting entangled with someone else, especially if there are kids involved!

i would personally recommend to MY girl friends and *EVERY* FEMALE to DIVORCE any cheating husbands!

*SELF-respect* first!!

The *TRUST* has been BROKEN 💔 so time to move on and find a MUCH BETTER, MORE HANDSOME, FAITHFUL & LOYAL second husband!  ✋👣👣 👣


Listening to a 🎧 DJ set by a guy i know — Trance/Progressive — we know many mutual 🎧 DJs and friends, several of the guys moved to SF.

i haven’t seen them in years!

Lovely person is still a 🎧 DJ in a different city and an excellent 🎧 DJ who gave me several albums.


🇬🇧Sophie Ellis-Bextor | 'Murder on the Dancefloor' | BAFTA 2024

Song featured on 🇬🇧📽 “Saltburn” with excellent music scoring!

https://youtu.be/JOSgfSGknvc?feature=shared


Snoopy & Woodstock playing! 🎃👻

i think *WHO* your favorite “The Peanuts” character is somewhat revealing of a person.

My favorite character is _______!

“The Peanuts” always makes me think of 2 people and one is a very tall guy friend who lives in Brooklyn, New York and had a baby grand piano 🎹 in his living room, but a 💻 Geek at a luxury department store in a city that i DO like!

Obvi, he’s a VERY SMART and a kind, helpful person! We met via a mutual guy friend but the other guy friend is no longer a friend of mine, and i have LOST respect for him. Alas!

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REALLY SUPER IMPORTANT & Time Saving Advice for *ALL* Girls & Women:

Keep track of the percentage % of his Words and ACTION!

With a FULLY GROWN-UP Man, his *ACTIONS* match-up with what he tells you!

ACTIONS > Bullshit pretty words he tells you!

Evaluate his promises and words against his FOLLOW THROUGH ACTIONS!


i would also advise girls who are very pretty to be VERY *SELECTIVE* when making and keeping girl friends.

Don’t waste your time hanging out with any girls who are actually a Frenemy and MEAN to you!

Frenemies are actually just insecure, jealous girls who are *NOT* as pretty, cool or interesting as you!

Eliminate these from your life!

Find BETTER girl friends!


i would also definitely advise girls to *ONLY* date guys who are close to your age and who are in the SAME generation as you!

A much older guy wanting to date or pursuing you indicates IMMATURITY, and it’s creepy when people think he’s your father or grandfather!

This is obviously a problem that girls who are very pretty have to deal with often!

So BE SMART!


i don’t like unnecessary nor lotta DRAMA — ONLY good TV 📺Drama! — in my life and much prefer SIMPLICITY!

So an advice i would give to other girls is to *NEVER* flirt with your guy friends!

And definitely do *NOT* get involved physically with them!

Keep guy friends PLATONIC and guys you may be interested in dating romantically *VERY* SEPARATE!

Otherwise, you will have to deal with delicate male egos when it gets crushed like a bug because it’s unrequited feelings of wanting more than purely *PLATONIC* friendship between you and your guy friends!


Some people swear hella LOT, when they are VERY PISSED 😡😡 OFF, irl!

But usually, i *RARELY* swear, so it’s kinda funny, haha! 😊


#bloomscrolling #photography #noedit

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Full Moon! 🌕

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Cool, Linkin Park has a NEW Singer and it’s a girl!

She sounds a lot like a girl friend of mine who used to be in a Pop Punk band, who was super cool, pretty and very smart! And a very d.i.y. kinda girl.

Girl friend knows the Founder of Warped Tour and obvi knows bunch of the bands who were part of it.

https://youtu.be/WiD6KjygMSs?feature=shared


i am really *NOT* a People Person!

This means i am a Social Introvert who likes to hang out by myself a lot and enjoy *SOLO* exploring and doing things.

Fyi, Introverts get energy INTERNALLY, from *WITHIN* themselves whereas Extroverts get energy EXTERNALLY, from contact and socialization with *OTHER* people.

Introverts NEED time *AWAY* from people to charge their internal batteries. Too much social interaction is draining for Introverts!

Being an Introvert doesn’t necessarily equate being a shy nor an anti-social person as many people assume and falsely believe.

Personally, i am a Social Introvert who can be very social and have been called a “Socialite” numerous times, but i also am *NOT* a People Person, meaning i don’t really like people in general.

Exception is i *DO* like well-behaved, NON-spoiled adorable children! i find kids to be much more honest and less bullshit than most adults.

But i know a LOT of people and am a Connector of people, around the world 🌎🌏🌍 and probably the MOST well-connected person you will ever meet in your life, including many famous, wealthy and “VIPs”, some whom everyone has definitely heard of globally!

i would make a great Diplomat since have the natural, intuitive ability — not taught nor learned — to be able to connect with almost anyone, if i REALLY wanted to and tried, globally.

It doesn’t matter what profession, race/ethnicity/heritage, country, religion, socio-economic background, poor or ultra wealthy, gender, sexuality, beliefs, life values, interests, etc. the other person is.

i am able to connect with them on a human level, *IF* i wanted to.

And i am also VERY LIKABLE without trying to be likable because frankly, i don’t care if people like me or not!

Anyway, so Social Introvert who is *NOT* a People Person who is ARTSY & CREATIVE, really into the Arts & Culture, Fashion & Style, Music, Travelling, Food, Architecture, Innovations, Ideas, Books, Films & TV Series, GOOD design, SMART, and VERY *SELECTIVE* about friends and people who pass my Integrity+Honesty+Quality criteria, who are *NON-shallow nor superficial and have depth of beliefs & character and who are INTERESTING = what i am about!


What i notice about people when i walk into a room:

1) What someone is wearing — their sense of style/fashion

2) Face — i do *NOT* like facial hair on men

3) Hair — *GOOD* hair is important in life!

And then i *FEEL* a person’s vibe & energy, intuitively, a thing that many people can’t.

i can *FEEL* if their vibe/energy is calm, good, positive, desperate & needy, starving for love & attention, insecure, etc.

Some people radiate a very big vibe & energy and sense of fun, one of those intangible things that must be FELT *IN* PERSON and does not translate online.

In REAL life *PHYSICAL* meeting, conversing and interactions is MUCH BETTER: the Full HUMAN, Tangible experience!


Don't walk in front of me, I may not follow. Don't walk behind me, I may not lead. Walk beside me and be my friend. Albert Camus, French philosopher, author, and journalist (1913–1960)


Enlightenment is found within the mind, not outside it in various worldly phenomena. It is found in wisdom, not ignorance, in virtue and purity, not evil and pollution. William Bodri


A prezzie of a 🇫🇮Moomins book i bought for someone. i wanted one for myself but alas, they only had 1 copy so haven’t read it yet.

But i love 🇫🇮Moomins, created by 🇫🇮🏳🌈 Finnish Writer & Artist Tove Jansson, discovered years ago. So cute!

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Tiffany blue (shade of green)

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From en route to a significant trip for me!

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- Julia Hawkins #art


🇬🇧Pulp - “Common People”

https://youtu.be/yuTMWgOduFM?feature=shared


i suggest for those People of PRIVILEGES who live in an Easy Peasy 🫧 to actually fking TALK TO and try mingling with people of *DIFFERENT* Socio-Economic Backgrounds & Status as YOU!

The SAME Opportunities which do *NOT* exist for them and HELLA LOTTA more roadblocks for them in life!

A person can *NOT* see the Full 🖼 Picture of everyone, hardships, difficulties when they have only had a VERY *LIMITED* speck of view and life experiences, protected in their Easy Peasy 🫧 of money and good options they were born into!

Perhaps then they will actually DEVELOP a thing called Empathy!

HUMAN connection and feeling *OTHER* people’s pain, understanding their suffering and what they have to endure in THEIR Not as Easy Peasy 🫧 Life as yours and people similar to you!


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It’s REALLY FKING OBVIOUS to me that many people have *NEVER* actually SUFFERED thru Trauma caused by *OTHER* people!

And that they are a COLD person at heart and not very IN TOUCH with their emotions nor feelings!

i suggest you actually fking LEARN & DEVELOP some Empathy and GET OUTTA your LIFE OF PRIVILEGES EASY PEASY Life 🫧 ! 😡


Trust but *VERIFY* is what i would recommend!

Also recommend for vetting people (most who *DO* lie!) and especially when raising children!

And when kids lie, you NIP that BAD behavior right away and TAKE *AWAY* ALL THEIR PRIVILEGES, so that they will become HONEST, TRUSTWORTHY Grown-UPs (rather than Compulsive Lying Idiots or SPOILED EGOCENTRIC Jerks)!

No toys or anything to play with till they learn to be thoughtful, considerate of others, helpful people!

Do we really need any more JUVENILE Toddler like SELFISH low emotional intelligence men in the world 🌎🌏🌍 now?!

HELL NO!!