can we invent a new gender/sexuality that nobody actually is, and get those "allies" who view allyship as being acceptability cops saving the troublesome queers from themselves to worry about that instead so they'll stop going down the rake to right wing pipeline? (no, i'm sure we can't) 

 having period products in the men's room is a great first step, but we need to have a conversation about also having hot wheels cars in the women's room 

 we need a schoolhouse rock for being normal in women's replies